Hello! I am a 17 year old boy and I have a question for you. In the summer of 2019 I met a very good and beautiful girl, a friend introduced us and we became very close to her, we became super close - more than her bff to say. However, for about 1 month she has been behaving very strangely - she writes me sexual hints, sends me hearts, compliments me all the time, teases me, wants to CONSTANTLY talk to me, says that I am perfect, etc. She even said that she really wants to do sex with me and I had asked her after all if she wanted us to become a couple. whereupon she got angry with me and said she didn't want to because we were very good friends, she didn't want to ruin our friendship. I agreed, of course, because it makes perfect sense. Until yesterday. Yesterday, when we talked, she told me that we were together as boyfriends, that I was very close, and so on. n and sent me a very provocative picture of her ass (she is very sexy) and now I do not know what to do. I ask anyone who understands these things or has had a similar case to give me some advice below in the comments. Thanks in advance for your attention!
1 clydecoopersbbq answered
Don't ask her because an explanation requires a rational explanation. There is no such thing, it's all about emotions. Maybe he just likes you for sex, not for a relationship, so be prepared for that. Otherwise, the solution is to act directly, and whatever happens will happen. You don't have a pure friendship anyway, because you already have an interest in each other as a man and a woman. Things like "staying friends" no longer have a place in this relationship. If she firmly refuses to develop your relationship further - it's time to whip yourself, because otherwise she will try to turn you around for years, if not a lifetime. For reference, the next topic with the family friend, who constantly asks the man for services and the like.