Hello! I am a 29-year-old woman. I write almost at midnight - after another overeating. Today, at least, I had an occasion - a celebration - but this is not an exception, but almost a rule in my life - to overeat like a pig in the evening. I have had problems with overeating for about 6-7 years. I'm talking about that emotional eating - when you eat without being hungry, but just to cram - salty, sweet, then salty again and so on .... to abdominal pain and I barely get off the table. I had such seizures last night - I feel lonely, I don't have a boyfriend, and I'm kind of sad. Otherwise, I don't have any big "drama" in my life, but I don't feel satisfied in general, with the things that have happened to me. I am saddened by many injustices, and maybe they were the result of my choices ... And here is a little history of overeating: Overall, it was triggered by 2 major disappointments in my life. The first disappointment rather made me give up food. I felt guilty and I had to punish myself, to feel bad, to suffer. For about 2 years I was constantly hungry - still on coffee, from which I shivered and did not have the strength to get out of bed, I was constantly hungry - I thought it should be so that I "succeed" (what I "succeeded" and I do not know), except that I was completely exhausted, even my brain wasn't working well - I forgot, I was constantly thinking about how hungry I was and I was amazed at my friends that they ate patties, that they could afford to eat all the chocolate - a complete shock! Disappointment number 2 followed - a love drama - which threw me to the other extreme - trampling to infinity. I saw that I was not happy with starvation then - and I decided to catch up with the food. I was so anxious and depressed - I gained a lot of weight at once - I ate an infinite amount and chose only high-calorie food - mostly sweet, and it was so bitter in my soul - I was very unhappy - really! I wanted to escape this trap, but I couldn't - I just wanted things to happen perfectly, and it didn't happen - at the same time I couldn't figure out why I gained a lot of weight - he impressed my closest ones, even my grandfather - who generally didn't notice anything. I looked like a dude and I couldn't stop. Since then - for about 7 years I still have bouts of overeating. I start to faint - when I feel offended, when I fail at something, when I think of something disappointing - I reach for the food. And I can't deal with this vicious habit. I keep telling myself that's not the way that food will not solve my problems. But I'm very worried about some things in my life, I'm constantly restless and I want to calm down, but I don't know how. And this food - it spoils my body, destroys me from within, I can't stand it - when I overeat - I don't choose, I feel some satisfaction - but it is very short-lived. I know that my problems are more mental, but this does not work - I realize things, but this is not enough incentive to stop - just keep going until the next time ... I write this whole triad, because it is more from confession, more than half of my conscious existence and marked a long period of my life that continues to this day. Give me advice on how I can cope - I want to clarify that I have no problem with sports - I even do - but my main problem is poor nutrition - how can I overcome it? Thanks to everyone who came to this line in their reading!
1 kevpontanna answered
How many kg are you? Do not eat out of boredom or in front of the TV! Eat when you're really hungry. No matter how banal it sounds to you and no matter how many times you have heard it - make a regime. Eat low-calorie food, you will get used to it is not so bad. What do you love? Vegetables are extremely useful, make your own salads. If you can't do without bread, eat 1-2 slices of bread a day. Start exercising, they will only help your diet. You will see how fast you will lose weight if you learn how to limit yourself and not lead a sedentary lifestyle.