I Can't Stand Condoms

   And I, sister ... I'm a man. The further we move away from nature - the worse for us.

   I'm 18 too. I've been having sex recently, but it hurts a lot with a condom, I've done it 10 times so far. I'm afraid of getting pregnant, but ... My boyfriend and I are like that, we don't use it and when he approaches to finish, he takes it out and empties it on his face, etc. Is there any danger if it does not end inside me, but outside me? And we are both the first, at least I don't worry about diseases, and I don't want to take pills because of the hormones ... All my friends complain that when they drink them and their mustaches kill them, what not ... I will be happy for advice from experienced people :)

   Author: There is no danger once it ends outside. You were right about the hormones. I've been drinking a lot of stuff from them. You better not drink them. If it doesn't end inside there is no problem.

   I do not have such a problem, but I have heard of girls who are allergic to latex. See if this is not the case for you. If so, they sell non-latex condoms. Try to see how it will be with them.

   Ha-ha-ha. Where did you come up with these urban pill legends? Yes, some girls don't do well and may feel bad, but that broke my mustache! By that logic, I should already have a beard like Santa's that I've been on pills for a few years. But you practice an interrupted act and squeeze your thumbs so that it does not become a scourge that of all possible methods this is the most insecure. But because a friend told her neighbor that she had heard from her cousin that her friend's classmate had grown a mustache from the pills ... so believe me. By the way, I know a girl with 3 (!) Abortions who doesn't take pills for the same reason, but 3 abortions are ok, right? And for the author, do an allergy test. You may be allergic to latex.

   You probably have an allergy to latex. Try non-latex condoms - Durex have them for sure.

   Number 2 to number 5: Look, I don't know, but many girls have shared this problem with the hormones from the pills ... I think it depends on the human body, we are all different after all. I want to ask, I've heard of a pill that is inserted into the vagina before sex and there was no danger and so on. Have you drunk one, what do you think of it? :)

   It is inserted into the vagina and then drunk?

   To №7: Yes, these are Pharmatex vaginal globules, which are placed shortly before sexual intercourse. If you follow the conditions in the leaflet, you will not have any problems. But they mainly protect us from pregnancy, and from various sexually transmitted stories. I have used them many times, there was no problem. Detergent should not be used immediately before and after the use of the globules.

   My advice is to have a permanent partner as much as possible. I am a 44-year-old woman married for 20 years. I also never liked a condom. People with whom we have an intimate relationship must be carefully selected. Some time ago I read here a statement that sex is a drug and it is true. True, it is very important and necessary, but only with the right person. Just because we sometimes fast and pray doesn't mean we're going to die - we humans are carrying our heads on our shoulders.

   Number 7, is not a pill, but a cream and is applied BEFORE the act. There are also so-called women's condoms, some rubber bands, which are also placed inside, but also BEFORE the act. After the act there is only Escapel. And the fact that the pills do not work well for everyone is true, you may feel bad from them, but you grow a mustache? !! This is a living urban legend. In addition, there are so many types on the market that if you can't stand one, you can try another and a third until you find yours. But whatever you choose, pills, condoms, creams, etc., it is important to think with your head so that there are no unpleasant surprises that of all the methods of contraception, abortion is the worst! And believe me, the damage it does to health is far more severe than any pill. And that's why I'm terribly weird girls with a few abortions, who do not take pills not because they do not work well, but because they have heard that their mustaches will grow. But in the end, your life is yours, so are your bodies.

   I'm a man in my 30s and I don't like condoms

   How will they kill your mustache from drinking female hormones if you explain to me I will be very grateful: D haha. On the contrary, the cycle becomes regular and the skin like silk. The new generation of pills does not fill at all. I drank Yasmin for 2 years and I haven't moved. I've noticed that it increases the appetite a bit, but if you play sports there is no problem.

   I love condoms. I love them so much that even when I masturbate I use them. And not because of disgust, I just like the feeling of something tight around the penis. One day, when I have a really regular partner, I probably won't use them, and the only thing I want to be close to me will be herself, but for now this is the only sensible solution to prevent unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. Such discontinued methods that measuring temperature - dust in the eyes. There are sperm even in the preejaculate and it is enough for someone who thinks that if her boyfriend does not end up in it, she will not get pregnant, to become exactly what she actually gets pregnant. Don't play the lottery with your life.

   I'm one of those women who can't stand pills. And I have no desire to drink them. I protect myself with the so-called interrupted sexual intercourse. So far I have not had a problem, but I am not 100% calm. And every time he has to take it out before it's over. I guess it's not very pleasant for the man himself. My friend Pharmatex and I tried it. First of the pills, which start to work after 10 minutes. I get terribly dry and less than 2 minutes after we start doing it and a very unpleasant burning sensation begins in both of them. It even fell on him for the first time from this burning. Then you kept him under the cold water to calm him down :)) 2-3 times we did it with the pills and gave up. Then I heard that there was also Pharmatex cream, which starts to work immediately after application for 10 hours and was as a lubricant. We took from him. With the cream I was OK, I didn't dry out, I didn't have a burning sensation, but my friend still had a burning sensation. And it is strong and unpleasant. Separately, the cream smells bad. And we gave up that method. My gynecologist, who by the way is a good head of department at a large hospital in Sofia, recommended a mascara. With the modern ones there was no problem that I gave birth. But I'm still hesitant… And I'm afraid the placement is painful…

   I am number 15 - in the last sentence I mean that I did NOT give birth :)

   Normer 12, sex is not a gym to "push like an idiot"! When it doesn't give you pleasure, it doesn't. The idea is for both of you to be happy with what you do, not to bother.

   There are spirals ..... for this work .....

   №17, how can it not be fitness? Am I not obliged to give pleasure to the other, because otherwise, just look, you thought that "I do not love her"? . Don't they call them "marital pleasures", but "marital obligations"? Why? It is true that they are pleasures until the "doom", but then things fall into place - they are obligations. So don't wonder why the pleasures remain "outside". Simply because that's where they belong.

   Here's how to prevent pregnancy without a condom and pills. Before ejaculation, you put the male member in your mouth. Be careful to take all the semen by mouth. Then you swallow it. After swallowing, you must say that it was a lot :) The method is properly tested and widely used. There are no registered cases of pregnancy. YD, man

   If I'm not fed up with illiterates, where am I ... what are these comments about the pills, are you crazy ... how can people like this and that one tell you to drink something ... you go to the DOCTOR and he gives you the most suitable for you .... and not to buy whatever you like ... and is it true that 3-4 abortions are better than a little hair that is removed in exactly 5 minutes at a beautician .. dumb ducks ... and then you complain that you are 17 years pregnant, how was your mother when you were dumb as a dog .... wow, how such stupid women annoy me .... there are 10 abortions for a mustache !!!

   and my girlfriend doesn't like condoms and pushes me without a condom. Good ... I trust her, but I still prefer to be examined first to be sure, but anyway, whatever happened happened, we already did it without a condom. Recently I was forced into the car without a condom and unwittingly I ended up slightly (unconsciously, very little, but enough to become a nuisance, then I bought Escapele and now it's not very good, he makes it on me, I'm angry etc., and I didn't make her have sex at all, let alone without a condom ... I only bought non-latex expensive condoms and I use them, because I feel better with them myself, but she wants to without sometimes, and I never want to be under pressure whether I'm not going to finish easily or by mistake. that there is a minimal chance to get rid of the clear liquid itself, which contains a minimum number of sperm at times, which can ever happen, I'm not ready for children, and I'm not sure about it yet, I'm studying it and so on . Even when we argue on these topics, she starts talking to me about her stupid ex, with whom she was 2 years old and they did it without a condom many times, how he controlled himself, etc. blunder. Also, when I found out that she slept with a boy for one night before we met and gave a blowjob to a man on the 6th day of their acquaintance (because she went to them and he did not let her go),

   Hi, I'm also 21 and I've always hated condoms .. that's why I have a 1 year old child ... but I'm not complaining the exact opposite I'm very happy and my husband and I get along very well .. aa I want you to find out best condoms good luck;]