Hello! Maybe you have read many stories about unrequited love, the ability to understand the opposite sex ... I do not intend to burden you, I just thought that there is someone more experienced than me. I was in love with a man for three years and our feelings were mutual. I felt really happy, he was always the other half of me. I couldn't imagine my life without him. He went to study in another city, but our relationship remained. It wasn't long before I started dating a man and his friends. He was behaving well - he was holding my hand, we were getting to know each other. For a moment, I felt that feeling again that made me enjoy the little things. Each time, the man I had always loved was fading. My problem is that I can't move forward and open my heart - I'm worried about disappointing the person opposite. I don't go on dates, I don't like set things ... How do I know what and to whom I really feel? How can I allow my heart to love again even though it has been hurt for years? How can I give myself the strength I radiated in my old relationship? So far I have only truly loved once.
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Dear girl, I guess how you feel. I also had a relationship with a man for 3 years, in which I felt terribly happy and flew with happiness. Things happened that we broke up and everyone went on their way - he with a new woman, and I am alone for now. The bad thing is that he is in my head all the time and I can't open my heart to someone else. It's been 3 years since then and I still love it. I can give you advice not to think about love and relationships at all. We humans are so focused only on the fact that we ourselves create great tension, constant dissatisfaction, we are always looking for something and do not find it. But that's because we think too much. Relax, meditate, play sports, gather strength and energy again, overflow with positive thoughts and feelings and only when you are happy and satisfied, you will meet a person with whom you will start fresh and, with whom the doubts will pass by themselves. You will be light and calm again. You are a wonderful young lady who will still be much loved and appreciated. I believe.