Dear girls! I'm reading your comments and I'm wondering how 12- and 13-year-olds can worry about not being able to kiss. At your age, I prayed that they wouldn't give us a lot of homework so that I could go out and play with the other children. Just for information, I kissed for the first time at 17 and I'm not ashamed of it, because I look after my education, but as they say, love when it comes does not ask. As for those who have exercised in different ways - a waste of time. Kissing the person you truly love has nothing to do with these stupid attempts you make. When he is with the right person, everything will be fine. For me, everything was like a fairy tale. I don't think it's a mistake to tell your partner that you can't kiss. If he loves you, it will help you learn and appreciate the fact that you share such information with him - it will strengthen your relationship. I shared that I couldn't, and that I hadn't done it until now, and he helped me learn. As for the tongue kiss, it's not so scary either. When the time came, I just stopped thinking, turned off the world, and built a new world that was just me and him. I do not deny that I have read 10,000 tips on this, but I dare say that half and more are exaggerated. No need to worry - the more you think about each action, the more likely you are to confuse something. Relax and let your partner guide you, and if you are both new to this endeavor, it will be even better, as you have the opportunity to explore this new world with each other. It is also desirable to close your eyes during the kiss, because as everyone understands, vision is one of the senses and when we eliminate it, the others intensify and the feeling is even stronger. I hope I have been helpful if there are questions or something unclear or if someone has something to say (addition or remark) to write under the comment. I accept any criticism. Good luck to all the ladies and don't rush with the kisses and sex, after all you are still children and the fact that you are a virgin at 14 or 15 is not shameful at all, but very nice. Live your life and have fun. There is time for boyfriends and everything else. All in good time.
1 DDPLEASURE answered
There is nothing to do or think of him. I was like you, I had the same problem. I was afraid for the first time not to expose myself somewhere in the kiss :) But, believe me, when the time comes, everything happens by itself. You don't have to train and learn from someone. You just need to have desire and feelings :) Good luck