Hi. I'm going straight. I'm a 19-year-old girl and I've had a boyfriend until recently. We broke up, but he's still interested in me (we don't break up for the first time). I have my social security passwords. networks are still coming in and seem to be checking who I'm in contact with. He's asking people about me, he's going around the places that I... However, I have decided to move on no matter that I am still thinking about it. It's my first relationship, we've been together for a long time, we have a lot of memories. It's pretty hard to forget because I have to see it all from above for some reason. My problem is this. I started writing to a guy. He's pretty nice, nice, good. He's interested in me, we have topics of conversation, and it's all six. He wants to go out, but I'm scared. Not just with him, but when it comes to being around a man, I'm freaking out. I'm starting to feel like I'm cheating on my ex-boyfriend even though we're not together anymore and that there's nothing I'm doing. I'm worried that I might screw up my relationship with the boy in question because I can't make excuses all the time so we don't go out. I really wish I could go out with him, but like I said, fear, conscience. Something's eating me from the inside... maybe I still have hope that we'il get back together or expect it, and I don't want it to be like that. If we get better, I won't feel like I've dated someone else before. I don't think it's normal to feel that way, because I'm single right now, but that feeling doesn't go away.
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jodi_flowers answered · June 11, 2020
I really don't know why you're harassing your head with.
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xphil94x answered · June 11, 2020
Change your passwords. Promise yourself you'il only look ahead. Give yourself a chance with the new boy.
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kimberly_sky answered · June 11, 2020
You say you're determined to move on on your own path, and you say you subconsciously have hope of reuniting with your ex.
It's normal, considering your previous relationship is your first, to have a special place, but there's a reason why the exes are like that. You don't have to keep a loophole, even though you're determined.
Give the new boy a chance. When you get out again, it doesn't seem right and your relationship may break down, but it'il just mean that you've met a suitable (maybe, maybe not) person at the wrong time, and this scenario will happen a lot.
It's Bratan.
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loiro_picudo answered · June 11, 2020
Talk to the boy who has an interest in you. He's been hanged in detail what's here, please. I'm in a similar situation. How I wish the girl who is at heart to decide and talk about these things in detail.. But...
M, 21
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thomasleiber answered · June 11, 2020
It'd be a good idea to start changing your passwords and forgetting his. You're separated, take a decent personal space.
I understand, believe me. I've been your way, and I've had such confused feelings. I personally clenched my teeth and promised myself that I would not deal with new people until I stopped feeling guilty that I had moved on with my life. I've been honest with every person I've been interested in. I thought it was the right thing to do. I expected they'd hate me, but nothing like this happened. You have to realize that you're the unreliable potential mate right now. You can't give in to a new boy while your ex is still in your head. Take care of yourself, heal yourself. Give yourself the time you need, learn to function for yourself, and when you're whole, you'il have no problem going on a date. You're single, you can go out, write with boys, dream. Close the loopholes to the ex- change passwords, stop talking about him in front of friends, don't follow his profiles, don't ask about him. It's over. The point is not a comma. Go out with the boy in question, put into the conversation that you're after a hard breakup and you don't feel completely able to start a new relationship. You and your ex have been together and separated, so now it's hard for you to realize that you're done and you're grieving your conscience when you think about a date. It's going to be good.
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freegoodshow answered · June 12, 2020
Bravo to Bearded