Hello, I'm engaged to my boyfriend for 1 and a half at the beginning of our relationship. I drank contraceptives. I drank them for a total of 4 years. but I decided to stop them because I realized that I no longer need them for 7 months I do not drink them during these seven months of each of our sexual intercourse it ends in me. In fact, he and I have never specifically wanted or said we want a child, but we realize that we both want him, we live together, we renew where we live together, we have common plans, and all in all, it's not me and him, we love each other we support each other these are unnecessary specifics and every month for 7 months now it comes to me like clockwork on the date as we have not resorted to doctors because as I said it is not something we strive for and do not discuss every month but now why not why didn't it work out, but I'm worried about his brother in the future, his cousin can't have children and I'm worried that he might have problems or because I have 2 abortions. How do you think this really creates an occasion or I get into movies
It worries me that you do what you want without talking to each other. Even taking a dog is discussed, not to mention a child. Besides, you are not very literate - do you have a job in education? Can you watch and support a child?
We have been trying for 5 months. My gynecologist believes that only after a year and a half of attempts, if there is no result, it should be assumed that a problem is possible and start research. However, I think, if it doesn't happen in 2-3 months, to turn to an endocrinologist, to test whether the sex hormones are normal, because it seems that most often there was the cause in mild cases.
Rather, you have two abortions !!!! , because with the previous ones you were as frivolous as now, when I read what you wrote ole mother
7 months is a very short time. If the work is not done in 2 years, then there are already grounds for concern. And even if there are such reasons, do not forget that there is a 50% chance that the reason is not with you at all. Why don't you send him for a semen analysis. It's easy and fast, and it costs almost nothing ...
Go to the doctor. In general, they advise to seek the opinion of a specialist in case of failure for more than a year.
I threw you beans and it showed that you need to examine yourself both! What kind of young people do you have in mind, they are both dubious, they don't do what they have to (to be researched), but go to forums to write !?
God has assigned a certain number of children to each. You killed one of your two. Repent and pray that you have been assigned at least three. Repentance and prayers can help. And do not cling to the idea of children - so even less chance of success. Often childless families have a child after adopting another child without parents.
The author I did not expect such comments as you judged me illiterate because I write from the phone and eat letters do we know each other and did you contact me and you got such an opinion, and I did not kill anything I got two miscarriages dear readers. In general, I asked for advice, not to tell me what I am and whether yes, please and similar nonsense. As for what income I have, believe me, I have enough to not be deprived of anything and to work for myself and not for anyone else. And you?
Let's get a spermogram, and a basic examination. Don't look, dates, ovulation ... Just relax. But if he has a family history or you have a problem after these abortions, you need to know what it is in the end.
9 there is no definite number, I get pregnant easily, if I decide one year I can give birth Try not to eat food with E and do not use plastic, to cleanse the body. Do you calculate ovulation well? Don't fixate, you're alive.
Author, don't listen to these sectarians. First, I had an abortion at the age of 7 months and talked to the doctor about whether the possibility of not having children was true. My abortion was also spontaneous. He told me - and not only this doctor - that this is nonsense and nowadays almost every woman has miscarriages and children or a child afterwards. For reference, I will tell you that then our child got in 9 months of trials. Doctors say there is a problem if after a year and a half of attempts it does not work. If there is a real problem, the man is sent for a spermogram to a urologist to diagnose it. A number of tests are being performed on her wife. I don't think you have a problem. Your experiments are less than two years old.
13 Just as it is possible to have a spontaneous and then a child, so it is possible not to have a child afterwards. I understand that you want to give courage to the author, but the truth especially for her can only be told by a specialist. The question asked by the author should not be asked in an anonymous forum but by the gynecologist, only he can tell her what how and why. Especially since they haven't commented on this with her husband, or if she wants to comment with her husband first, then they should both go to the doctors to ask for help. In the forum they can neither examine her nor make her a child.
A monkey dere in Hissar or Ivanchova Polyana near Varshets gets pregnant for sure. Proven 100%!
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There is a pastor who prays for people on youtube and I have heard testimonies of how a woman who did not have the opportunity to have a child for 12 years became pregnant after these prayers. Pastor Plamen Petrov writes on YouTube every Thursday from 21:00