Hello! I recently ended a long relationship with a person I loved very much and will always love in one way or another. During the time we were together, we both grew up a lot, set our priorities, and at one point it just turned out that we were exhausted; that we are hurting each other, and we shouldn't. That's why we broke up - without scandals and quarrels, quietly and humanely. The squabbles came after that, but that's another story. Just before we ended our relationship, another man entered my life, and his presence also tipped the scales to some extent. I wanted freedom, to be able to breathe and express myself, to be fully understood - and the new man gave me just that. I missed the gleam in my eyes, I missed the joy we hadn't had for a long time with my ex. The problem is sex. The new dude is great, but no matter how many times we have been intimate with him after parting with the previous one, I can't reach orgasm. And it has never happened to me before. The boy is trying very hard, really. She does things exactly the way I like and I'm on the verge of orgasm all the time, but ... nothing. It's as if I have some kind of psychological brake, or God knows what stands between me and him, and he doesn't allow me to be complete in the act. My question to you is: what could be the reason for this? Why does my body demand its things and needs, and my mind has not relaxed and seems to live in the past? What is done in such a case? Do you think I will ever cross the barrier and meet the miraculous mythical creature called orgasm again?
Thanks in advance for the opinions and recommendations. They will really be useful to me. i can't reach orgasm. And it has never happened to me before. The boy is trying very hard, really. She does things exactly the way I like and I'm on the verge of orgasm all the time, but ... nothing. It's as if I have some kind of psychological brake, or God knows what stands between me and him, and he doesn't allow me to be complete in the act. My question to you is: what could be the reason for this? Why does my body demand its things and needs, and my mind has not relaxed and seems to live in the past? What is done in such a case? Do you think I will ever cross the barrier and meet the miraculous mythical creature called orgasm again? Thanks in advance for the opinions and recommendations. They will really be useful to me. i can't reach orgasm. And it has never happened to me before. The boy is trying very hard, really. She does things exactly the way I like and I'm on the verge of orgasm all the time, but ... nothing. It's as if I have some kind of psychological brake, or God knows what stands between me and him, and he doesn't allow me to be complete in the act. My question to you is: what could be the reason for this? Why does my body demand its things and needs, and my mind has not relaxed and seems to live in the past? What is done in such a case?
Do you think I will ever cross the barrier and meet the miraculous mythical creature called orgasm again? Thanks in advance for the opinions and recommendations. They will really be useful to me. She does things exactly the way I like and I'm on the verge of orgasm all the time, but ... nothing. It's as if I have some kind of psychological brake, or God knows what stands between me and him, and doesn't allow me to be complete in the act. My question to you is: what could be the reason for this? Why does my body demand its things and needs, and my mind has not relaxed and seems to live in the past? What is done in such a case? Do you think I will ever cross the barrier and meet the miraculous mythical creature called orgasm again? Thanks in advance for the opinions and recommendations. They will really be useful to me. She does things exactly the way I like and I'm on the verge of orgasm all the time, but ... nothing. It's as if I have some kind of psychological brake, or God knows what stands between me and him, and he doesn't allow me to be complete in the act. My question to you is: what could be the reason for this? Why does my body demand its things and needs, and my mind has not relaxed and seems to live in the past? What is done in such a case? Do you think I will ever cross the barrier and meet the miraculous mythical creature called orgasm again? Thanks in advance for your opinions and recommendations.
They will really be useful to me. and does not allow me to be complete in the act. My question to you is: what could be the reason for this? Why does my body demand its things and needs, and my mind has not relaxed and seems to live in the past? What is done in such a case? Do you think I will ever cross the barrier and meet the miraculous mythical creature called orgasm again? Thanks in advance for your opinions and recommendations. They will really be useful to me. and does not allow me to be complete in the act. My question to you is: what could be the reason for this? Why does my body demand its things and needs, and my mind has not relaxed and seems to live in the past? What is done in such a case? Do you think I will ever cross the barrier and meet the miraculous mythical creature called orgasm again? Thanks in advance for your opinions and recommendations. They will really be useful to me.
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Hi, I hope I can be useful to you. I've had a similar problem. After I met a girl I wanted a lot of intimacy, but she tried several times to give me a "blowjob", but because it was my first I do not know how but I could not relax and pick it up -. -. This brought me to a crisis and I was annoyed with myself after about a week (maybe a little more) the work became. I really wanted to lick her but she was also ashamed, afraid and she didn't want to, she couldn't relax in front of me, but one day when we were together she said yes and then she got very aroused but not enough and then we did it for the first time road, but even then I was still a little worried and hellishly difficult and it took me a long time to finish. So I think after a while it will pass. :)
Well, give yourself time. You are not yet psychologically finished with the previous one and that is why. You're used to relaxing just in front of him. If you love the boy you are with right now, things will get better, you need to strengthen your spiritual connection and trust.
You will reach orgasm when your relationship passes or if it passes on a spiritual level. Carnal attraction is much easier to achieve than spiritual attraction, because after all, sex is not just flirting and making money, but an act with a loved one, through which your souls merge into one. At the beginning you tell about your former friend and at the end you ask - '' Why does my body demand his things and needs, and the mind has not relaxed and seems to live in the past? ''. By analyzing your history, I come to the conclusion that you started your new relationship to tease your ex, but at the beginning you say that the quarrels started later (after the end of the relationship). I think chaos reigns in your life! Nor can you say that you will love your ex in one way or another, but that you have started a new relationship with someone you have no feelings for, but only common interests and carnal attraction. When I read your story, I immediately realized that you are a confused teenager.
I can't start anymore ... and that's what I want