Dude, I have the same problem, I know. I personally enjoy it but it just doesn't predispose me enough, you get distracted, you think about other, radically different things, it's from your busy daily life. I have to karma for 30-40 minutes to finish, and only after I increase the pace. Years ago I had another woman with whom I just finished in 3-4 minutes, at most, and she wasn't even half as beautiful as the current one. What do I do before we do anything I rest but it's like I haven't been to work for weeks, you take a hot bath and sleep for half, an hour, after which you indulge in it without jumping directly. A little love play helps, I tell you. You just relax and shake off everyday life, you don't have to go to the kitchen ... and it's good for you. If you can't concentrate and then just imagine something exciting about your wife, like a moment in a porn movie or something. And don't think about how to finish first, the woman must be ok then it's you. And more cheerfully, it could be worse, like you can't do it. Aide and success.
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The problem is not in your wife, but in you. There is no logic in not being able to have sex, but only with a check or a blowjob. If you go to a prostitute or another woman, your story will repeat itself and the only thing you will achieve will be that you cheated on your wife. And if your wife is wide "down", then you may not be able to have sex. Buy a silicone ring that is put on the penis and I'm sure it will work, and if you don't like the idea ... there is a spray for women that shrinks the vagina. Don't look for pleasure elsewhere because of something you can fix yourself. F 22