Try it with your hands. Play porn, watch for a while until you feel aroused, start lightly touching from below, but not directly on the clitoris, but around it. And so, little by little, you start to stimulate him and him as you feel good. Put some lubricant, for example some massage oil, almond or specially bought for the purpose. You will see that orgasm will strike you quickly ... If you do not know exactly where the clitoris is, you are just wasting your time, google in a photo to find out where to touch. Personally, I don't like to get inside while masturbating, but every woman is different. Good luck and remember that you must first figure out how to do it yourself before you expect a man to do it for you.
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It is not enough to be stimulated, you must be excited. Try to fantasize about some things or watch porn. If it still doesn't work, the massager may simply not have a strong enough vibration. Turn the handset on the shower and try with the jet from the hose, so you can adjust the strength of the stimulation. But you will still have to think about exciting things.