Hello! I have been sympathetic to a man for some time. Months ago, I experienced such on his part. Female intuition. We met at a disco once - I invited him because he had told me to call him if I went out. We work together on a common project, but with different topics, ie in different groups, but we both get together and help each other. He offered to take me where I wanted, but he could do it out of collegiality. We often look at each other and understand each other with our eyes. He is nine years older than me. We are both sociable and like to joke. We don't have our phone numbers, he doesn't write to me on the Internet and he didn't invite me to another outing. I have been told that he looks at me, sometimes he stands near me, but does not touch me. However, I feel that there is sympathy. I don't know what to do ... It is possible that he also has some concerns about me. I have no desire to reveal my feelings because I am afraid that there will be tension if he does not feel the same way about me. Otherwise, I don't mind telling him I like him - I'm not shy about it. I can take the initiative, but I don't know how to find out if I like it ... I will be grateful to everyone who shares their opinion and experience!
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Maybe he thinks the same way you do. He may like you but not want to create tension in the work environment. It is very possible that the only way to know if you like it is to take the initiative. Male at 35
Act!
Why don't you sleep a few times? It will be immediately clear whether you like it or not.
3, what an overnight stay, they are super stam from each other, and you talk about sex. Author, I want to tell you to keep in mind that if someone is 5, or 9, or 13 years older than you, it does not mean at all that he is more confident in communicating with the opposite. gender, that he has more / enough experience, that he knows how to approach liking a woman, etc. Your man is most likely ashamed of how to cross the friendly zone with you, and if he had the most dangerous one in your address, the most he would probably make sure he had no contact with you unless your boss assigned him such a task.
Don't you eat at lunch? When you work at home, don't you have to ask the other person about something - how come you haven't gotten your phone numbers yet? It's too early for confessions, and you don't need at all what it costs you to say "oh, shut my head, let's go have a coffee" or "today, as it turned out, we'll miss lunch, let's go back to the opposite pizzeria "and at the end of the working day what prevents you from saying" I did a good job today, the weather is wonderful and I'm not coming home yet, a beer and some potatoes will not affect me badly ". If he ignores these hints, he is obviously not interested in you, and maybe someone else is waiting for him for a beer - what confessions, what 5 leva, he certainly knows that you like him, but he wonders if I'm not mistaken and take to expose myself to a colleague. Be active,
Terrible sympathies. Half of my colleagues look at me like that. If you take the initiative, you will know if there is something. At the moment, I don't see anything special in his relationship.