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I Can `t Say No!

By djcarisma October 25, 2020 7 answers Last updated October 25, 2020

Hi, I'm a 20 year old girl. I started having sex relatively early - at the age of 15 - because I already felt ready. My first time was great, even though I couldn't reach orgasm. After a while, however, I broke up with my then friend and because I am beautiful, a few weeks later I caught another. We did it several times, obviously he was very good, everything was perfect and at one time we started having sex twice or even three times a day. It just became like a vicious circle - getting up, sex, eating, sex, work, rest, dinner, sex ... At one time I was uncomfortable because I felt like a prostitute. I didn't mention that this happened when I was almost 17. I broke off my relationship with him because I wanted a calmer and more tender relationship, not just sex and sex. I was alone for a few months, and during this time I saw him only to do it for one night. Two or three times only. At one point he asked me if I was wrapped in a threesome. For more than half a year I was alone, and a big lunatic, haho completely and I agreed. Threesome with him and his friend. It was wonderful, supreme! His friend was super gentle and kind and so on ... Then I broke off the relationship with both of them, because at the moment I didn't want a relationship just for sex, and I moved to another city to continue studying. However, the memory of the two still haunted me. Shortly after I moved, my ex-boyfriend called me to ask if I wanted a threesome again. I wanted to refuse, but I couldn't, I felt some animal attraction to him! And I agreed ... This time we did it again with him and another of his friends. After a month or two calm. And he called me again, and I agreed again, again with another boy. This has been happening for more than a year, he turns his finger on me and wants sex, and I can't refuse, although I feel that it can't go on ... Please give me some idea how to get rid of him, to overcome my attraction, because at the moment I do not want only sex, but some healthier and more stable relationship. I know he doesn't love me, and I don't love him either, but I can't stop responding to his desires for sex ...

Answers 7

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briaandchrissy answered · October 25, 2020

   I understand you like this! As much as they don't admit it, most women want it, but it really doesn't make much sense. And you can still have a serious relationship as long as your boyfriend is crazy like you. In time, your aspirations for a threesome will pass, you will see.

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asami_usuda answered · October 25, 2020

   My opinion is that he uses you! Just don't pick up when it rings! Be firm! If necessary, change your phone number. Do your best to forget it

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harsh61 answered · October 25, 2020

   You're crazy! Drop him right away and catch a boyfriend to love and respect you and don't tell him what you did to them, he will despise you in an instant!

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hallie_may answered · October 25, 2020

   I've starred in the same movie as yours and I definitely know how you feel. As of today, the boy has a serious girlfriend, maybe then our meetings, which necessarily ended with sex, stopped. Nothing bad in my opinion, I even think that if it weren't for the girl in question, to this day we would only be together in the evening and for sex, so neither of them would be able to start "fresh". So one of the two must end the vicious circle. If you feel it's you, do it. Just organize your thoughts and you will understand the answer yourself. Good luck

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angelsweety_ answered · October 25, 2020

   I agree with number 2. When you can't refuse him, just change your number. Do you remember for him what you are - the one who is always ready for yours. There is nothing wrong with threesomes, I adore them. However, just imagine him talking to his friends. Probably talking about threesomes if they didn't, he tells them, it was over, I have a coil. and every time a different man drags you. It's just ... I have no words. Just imagine this situation. This is pure use. Will you allow others to satisfy the urge on your back? I do not think. You're a smart girl. Change your life. I wish you good luck and find true love.

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paula_cevasco answered · October 25, 2020

   If this will help you I tell you directly. Your man is either a pimp or pretends to be one. I can even take money. I think you're becoming a porn artist. Anyway, without being in love, you have sex, at least earn some income. Realize, sooner or later you will come across an even bigger bastard and then they will really tear your ass in the brothels.

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fastersaw answered · October 25, 2020

   Girl, it's obvious that he only uses you for sex ... You'd better cut it off as you should, don't call your phone or just change your number if you have to. My parents decided to move to another city and I immediately agreed..When we moved again they asked me to come back but first I did not pick up the phone, but they did not continue to call me and I changed my number..As I watch and Steve is the same..Well change your number and so you will get rid of it most easily !! GOOD LUCK :)))