Hello, I am very confused and I do not know what to do, I hope to find here different opinions of people who have been in a similar situation. I'm 21 and he's 23, we've been together for 2 years, but for the last few months we've been arguing, he gave me reasons to be jealous, he went out with his best friend (I don't think she's like that) in the beginning he even hid that he was with her he told me that he was only with his friends until I saw the photos from these outings and I saw her there. He went to the discos alone without me, and he took her several times to people I don't know about. I decided to talk to me, we are still great people, I asked him what she was like and why he was dating her. that they have only been friends for many years and because she was not like me, she was not angry with her for no reason and it was more pleasant ... That ruined me, I told him then to stay with her and not look for me anymore, he began to tell me how much he loved me, that he had never cheated on me, and that she was only friends with her, if there was anything he would tell me and we would not be together. I believed him, probably because I love him very much. Everything was fine, at least it looked like that, but he didn't continue to write to her (he gave to his friends and showed it more than once), he said he wouldn't leave her alone for a while. what had happened to her (she had lost a very close person and I said ok), but as if after that he became close to her, nothing had changed. We had quarreled over her again, and then he told me cruelly that he no longer loved me as he had loved me only as a friend, but he did not want to separate me. We are still together and he is still in touch with her now she is abroad for a few months. I don't know what to do I love it yet, but it's not like in the beginning after everything he told me that he no longer loved me but wants to be with me, because I'm very good as a person, he didn't know another like me and others. but I can't take it anymore, I think I'll leave once and for all, even if she's sick, I'm bored, I want to feel that thrill of being loved. He is a very good man, I have never met such a person, he took care of me as a princess, but now he is different, he is still worried, but not like that. He told me that I could count on him no matter what happened, even if we weren't together he would do anything for me, but as a friend he even told me not to expect anything from him, he didn't want to give me vain hopes. He still wants us to be together and that's why I can't understand him, he loved me as a friend but he can't do without me. Even I don't know what to think, I really love him, but I'm already on the edge with his behavior, everyone else, if only I had abandoned him without thinking. I have always been nice to him, I have never cheated on him, I have given him everything, but I did not understand why it happened. Please give me advice what to do .... :)
1 LILILY answered
Well, I think you said it yourself, you leave it and move on, if he doesn't love you, what's the point? , isn't there a thrill anymore, love is gone and friends to stay is not reasonable, it will hurt you more, you will find another love, let time pass, it will find you when you least expect it, I wish you a lot good luck and soon a new true love, success!