Hello everyone! I decided to share my story with you to help me as a person who has nothing to do with my problem. I have a friend for approximately 5 years. We met while I was studying. We have been living together for three years and our behavior is like a family. In the beginning, for the first two years, everything was like a fairy tale.
He loved me madly, I loved him too. He was constantly giving me presents and kind gestures, he was ready for anything for me, and so was I. However, when he moved in with me, to live together, things changed. He began to behave somewhat colder and more commandingly as if I were his wife, or worse, subordinate. I put up with this because I knew he loved me, and my love for him was too strong. Last year, however, everything turned upside down. He started cheating on me, and I pretended, that I do not feel or see the affairs. The eternal delays, the foreign perfume on the clothes, the absences on the weekends ...
I accepted it calmly as if nothing had happened. I was a model of the ideal wife - outside, at home, with friends, with colleagues, in bed. Four months ago, I scandalized him because I couldn't stand it. He laughed, not even denying that he had other lovers. I told him I wanted to separate because I had no intention of marrying him and enduring the same behavior for another 50 years. In fact, I didn't love him anymore, his behavior disgusted me. I expected him to start begging me, but he laughed again. He told me "Just try."
And then I understood what his words meant. I was fired soon after the scandal - there were connections in my office. I don't know what and where he did, but we live in a not very big city and things are getting louder. I was not hired anywhere else, he intervened again, and eventually one day I realized that my apartment was named after him. He didn't get there to kick me out, but I know that in another scandal this will happen. And on top of that, I'm pregnant! From him, from the monster who deceived me with his gentle demeanor and honeyed words and who will drive me out of my house without blinking his eye!
I don't know what to do anymore. I'm three months pregnant, it doesn't show yet. I want to leave him, but I'm afraid he won't let me. I have a good education and I think that I will be able to find a job in another distant city. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant? What after? When my baby is born, what will I explain to him? That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child? he intervened again, and eventually one day I realized that my home was in his name.
He didn't get there to kick me out, but I know that in another scandal this will happen. And on top of that, I'm pregnant! From him, from the monster who deceived me with his gentle demeanor and honeyed words and who will drive me out of my house without blinking his eye! I don't know what to do anymore. I'm three months pregnant, it doesn't show yet. I want to leave him, but I'm afraid he won't let me. I have a good education and I think that I will be able to find a job in another distant city. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant? What after? When my baby is born, what will I explain to him? That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child? he intervened again, and eventually one day I realized that my home was in his name.
He didn't get there to kick me out, but I know that in another scandal this will happen. And on top of that, I'm pregnant! From him, from the monster who deceived me with his gentle demeanor and honeyed words and who will drive me out of my house without blinking his eye! I don't know what to do anymore. I'm three months pregnant, it doesn't show yet. I want to leave him, but I'm afraid he won't let me. I have a good education and I think that I will be able to find a job in another distant city. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant? What after? When my baby is born, what will I explain to him? That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child? He didn't get there to kick me out, but I know that in another scandal this will happen.
And on top of that, I'm pregnant! From him, from the monster who deceived me with his gentle demeanor and honeyed words and who will drive me out of my house without blinking his eye! I don't know what to do anymore. I'm three months pregnant, it doesn't show yet. I want to leave him, but I'm afraid he won't let me. I have a good education and I think that I will be able to find a job in another distant city. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant? What after? When my baby is born, what will I explain to him?
That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child? He didn't get there to kick me out, but I know that in another scandal this will happen. And on top of that, I'm pregnant! From him, from the monster who deceived me with his gentle demeanor and honeyed words and who will drive me out of my house without blinking his eye! I don't know what to do anymore. I'm three months pregnant, it doesn't show yet.
I want to leave him, but I'm afraid he won't let me. I have a good education and I think that I will be able to find a job in another distant city. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant? What after? When my baby is born, what will I explain to him? That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child? who deceived me with a gentle demeanor and honeyed words, and who would drive me out of my house without blinking an eye! I don't know what to do anymore. I'm three months pregnant, it doesn't show yet. I want to leave him, but I'm afraid he won't let me. I have a good education and I think that I will be able to find a job in another distant city. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant? What after?
When my baby is born, what will I explain to him? That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child? who deceived me with a gentle demeanor and honeyed words, and who would drive me out of my house without blinking an eye! I don't know what to do anymore. I'm three months pregnant, it doesn't show yet. I want to leave him, but I'm afraid he won't let me. I have a good education and I think that I will be able to find a job in another distant city. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant?
What after? When my baby is born, what will I explain to him? That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child? that in some other distant city I will be able to find a job. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant? What after? When my baby is born, what will I explain to him?
That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child? that in some other distant city I will be able to find a job. But to work, to earn and at the same time to protect me from it, as I am pregnant? What after? When my baby is born, what will I explain to him? That his father and I didn't even get married, that he didn't even know he had a child?
1 kimberly_sky answered
Honey, I want to tell you that this man doesn't deserve you. Ask him (without telling him directly) what he will do if he finds out that he is already a father ?! From his answer you will realize how to act. Think well! What he did to you is not human - they fired you because of him, you can't find a job again because of him, he transferred the apartment to his name. And even if you have a child, he will still remain the same. Don't ruin your life for him. The story of kaka is just like yours and I know that THIS one will not be. I'm just expressing an opinion. You are the one who has to make the decision! Good luck, darling!