Hello! I am a 21-year-old woman and my problem is that I can't relax during sex unless I have been drinking alcohol. At the same time I have a great desire, I fantasize about all sorts of things when I masturbate alone, I watch porn, but that's it. I can't take the first step, it's as if something is bothering me and I've always been. I gave birth 3 months ago and the desire for sex is even greater and I am even much better than before the birth, but I am the same again. If my husband doesn't go first, I won't do anything, I don't know why. At the moment my body is not the most beautiful and I am very complex and I am even ashamed to be naked in front of it, and I do not want to train and follow diets, because I am afraid that my breast milk will stop, and it costs me a lot of effort. month time to breastfeed successfully with the little one.
Fortunately, I am talking to my husband on this subject and I have his full understanding, but I want to remove these reservations. I'm fine with him and I don't want to be a pensioner. I want to do everything I fantasize about, but I just can't go first, I always have thoughts in my head if I'm doing well, if I'm doing it right and the like. If I drink a few glasses of wine, I'm great, then there is no mention of the shy self, but as I mentioned, I am breastfeeding and for now this is impossible. : D Please give me advice. I want to lead a normal and relaxed intimate life. Thank you! do i do it right and the like. If I drink a few glasses of wine, I'm great, then there is no mention of the shy self, but as I mentioned, I am breastfeeding and for now this is impossible. : D Please give me advice. I want to lead a normal and relaxed intimate life. Thank you! do i do it right and the like. If I drink a few glasses of wine, I'm great, then there is no mention of the shy self, but as I mentioned, I am breastfeeding and for now this is impossible. : D Please give me advice. I want to lead a normal and relaxed intimate life. Thank you!
1 mia798 answered
If you are fat like an elephant, do not expect to be wanted and sought after for sex unless your husband or lover is in trouble with a woman and there is no one to tie him to, that is, there are no criteria for beauty and choice. It is better to take yourself in hand, enroll in fitness or practice some sport to keep your body and spirit in shape, with this alcohol and these fats would repel any normal man.