Hello. I am an 18-year-old girl from a relatively small town. I soon came of age, but the problems with my mother do not stop. She never allowed me to go out, until later than 7 pm, when I was called outside, even for 30 minutes, she did not let me in again. I have a little sister, my mother always wants me to look at her and stand next to her. I've never been to discos, and I don't want to, but I want a normal life, at least to go out. She has always been against me. She always insulted me, she said that I was rubbish, that I was useless, and I always apologize after every scandal because she is my mother and I respect her. But it can't be that way anymore. I have a dream to study medicine after I graduate, but it explicitly forbids me to separate from it and go. I have good grades, I have never insulted her. The words I hear from her all the time are: hoax, rubbish, you're useless, who will take you like that, you have these 18 on paper, but not in your head, you are stupid, you have no rights .. I started to underestimate myself .. I wonder if the words are not true. The only thing I want from her is to just go out and make my dream come true. I can't watch my sister at night, and always be with her, play with her so they can let me out for 1 hour. Please give me some advice, I don't know what to do. If she continues like this, I will do something she will hardly regret ... Please give me some advice, I don't know what to do. If she continues like this, I will do something she will hardly regret ... Please give me some advice, I don't know what to do. If she continues like this, I will do something she will hardly regret ...
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She tells you the things that SHE is. Watch your little sister if she is still very young and study, if not at least prepare. Then you catch your way and that's it. She wants you to be with her all the time because she "sacrificed her best years" to look after you and now you owe her.