I am very annoyed by the hypocrisy in society. I speak in the context of friends, girlfriends, acquaintances, etc. I'm annoyed that at school there was this pressure to be what you should be, or the cool ones. You have to walk properly, talk, behave, dress, be friends with cool people, be "right" in general. If you are not, they do not treat you with the necessary respect, they have prejudices because other people have spoken to them behind your back. Instead of wondering if it's true or not, they believe like morons. They won't go out with you, or at least invite you out. The girls won't be very interested in you, but you'll have to pretend to be a clown to be noticed. And they will be busy going out, at least they are busy for you, as well as for everyone else like you. I'm annoyed that after school I gave so much of myself, socially, to look good, to be punctual, to understand what the movie is like on dates, how to talk to girls I don't know, how to successfully get them to date me, how to treat them and what not. I'm annoyed that, despite everything, these people don't sleep for you at all. I am annoyed that I was told that "No one is obliged to behave in the same way as you, he can behave as he pleases." So why do you require me to be there? Why did a girl come to me one day to tell me that I should be more open, not so shy, but they don't have to behave anyway? Why on this nice, warm day no one wrote to me or called me to tell me to move outside, just for fun. And they were busy, maybe later. I feel like a backup. Why does a girl write to me, I invite her out twice, and she's busy both times, given that she tied a tin can to me the second time? And a few days later, when I gave up doing it, he wrote to me again? And now I had to approach I don't know how I, some special way, to take into account her and her free time (actually a girl if she tells you she's busy - don't believe him - she'll always find time if she wants) to we can just go out in good weather and go for a walk and have fun. And it's not for people anymore, but I wonder in my mind. Why do I put so much effort, why do I wonder which way to approach, to act tactfully, to be one way or another, in order to take time in the end. Why won't anyone try to get into my situation, to think about me? And then why should I do it for them? After all, no matter how difficult,
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Because you decided you needed something. Watch how others have fun, and you try to like you, to change, to look for what you are to make something happen there. You have turned all your attention to them and you are angry that they are not asleep for you. Well, they can't sleep, you're not your friends, and you don't need to sleep for them. The more you push someone to like you, the more you will repel them. Stop looking like a niece and don't care at all, focus on your interests and you will become curious about others.