Perhaps the most responsible, true and significant profession for any woman is to be a mother. Well, dear mothers, I turn to you because I have a problem. I am very tormented because I have to send my daughter to study in the big city (Plovdiv), and we are from a small village in Northwestern Bulgaria. You understand that the distance is great, as well as the change. My child doesn't know anyone there, but of course that will change over time. I am worried about how he will get used to it, how he will accept the change, what company he will be in. I see that she is also worried, but I don't show it to each other so that we don't worry, she to me, I to her and so on ... Give me advice ... I also have a question, which is on a specific issue - transport. I know that all pupils, students, etc. have the right to transport cards, the child has to travel a lot, so where does the card come from, do you need any documents from the university and so on. I will be happy to explain to me. I am aware that every beginning is difficult and we have all been through this path, but only a mother can understand me. I worry a lot, knowing it's for her own good. However, the feeling that I won't see her in bed again in a month and she won't be with us for dinner kills me. I will be really happy to hear your advice, even just to reassure me. I needed, writing these lines, just to share with the hope that somewhere here I will find comfort and empathy from people who have already gone this way, from mothers ...! Thanks!!! that in just a month I won't see her in bed again, and she won't be with us for dinner, she's killing me. I will be really happy to hear your advice, even just to reassure me. I needed, writing these lines, just to share with the hope that somewhere here I will find comfort and empathy from people who have already gone this way, from mothers ...! Thanks!!! that in just a month I won't see her in bed again, and she won't be with us for dinner, she's killing me. I will be really happy to hear your advice, even just to reassure me. I needed, writing these lines, just to share with the hope that somewhere here I will find comfort and empathy from people who have already gone this way, from mothers ...! Thanks!!!
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It's not easy. She will find friends. She will make a map, she will need a certificate from the university.
Madam, it is better to be in Plovdiv in companies than to stay at home in your village and at the age of 40 to be married to someone who is totally burdened with mental illness, or a brazier who will be 99. 99 percent also an alcoholic. And in Plovdiv life is relatively calm. Not like in Sofia, for example ... Let me also tell you, although there is such a trend to make every next generation blacker than the previous one, today's girls and boys are relatively more gentle compared to my sets with the eight.
I just can't imagine what my mother should be like, I also finished 12th grade and I'm moving from Sofia to study in Northern England ...
Is it difficult to send your child? - It's damn hard. Will he survive as a human being? "You know her, and you already know the answer." Yes the big city is a jungle. But I remember many people who survived and grew up in this environment. Transportation costs - all students receive a discount, which is a symbolic comparison with the price for the normal passenger. Quickly about the opportunities in the small populated area and the big one - the fact that the big one offers more of them, but also more risks. I would not dare to say - send it, and vice versa. Personally, I am frightened by the small choice of "studied" "future" spouses in the small town / village, over those in the big one (although in the big one there is still a huge percentage of uneducated and mediocre people).
Believe more in her and in yourself that you raised her well. She is already big and will handle everything, and she will make a travel map herself. Your girl has grown up from now on, you are only asked to help if she asks you for help, let your bird out of the cage to learn to fly alone.
Your daughter is a good child and you are a great mother. Do not worry. I also used to go to study in Sofia from a small distant town. She will cope. If you can go with her at least the first week.
If she's 18, there's nothing to worry about. You talk about her as a 5-year-old, but in reality she is a young woman. It is very good that you think what is good for her and despite your worries you support her. It's normal for a mother to worry, but she's not small. Believe that you have raised a young person who will cope with the change and can judge for himself what is good and what is bad for him. I also came to study in Sofia. When they left me ours looked like an abandoned puppy car. It took me 2 years to get used to Sofia. Then things settled down - friends, education, high-paying jobs, my husband. For nothing in the world would I return to my hometown and I am very grateful to my parents for supporting me and believing in me. I'm sorry they're far away, but that's best for me and they know it.
I have a girlfriend recently - from Russia, few people here speak her language and she is afraid. But now we write in Russian and everything is OK! So, let's go - people love new friends, exchange emails and get to know each other! Success! One girl
These "difficulties" will be very useful for her and will help her to build herself as a person and an independent person. Your child becomes a woman and as a mother, you should be very happy for her! Your worries are normal, but unnecessary, she will cope. You are asked to support her and meet her if needed.
She will cope. You raised a man with dreams. Be proud, she will always be grateful that you support her. Plovdiv is a wonderful city! I was born and live here. She will cope. It will be difficult at first, but then everything will be fine. A card is issued with a certified student book. They are issued right against Plovdiv University. About BGN 15 per month. There are also for three months and for a whole year. It is superfluous for a whole year, because it can lose it. When he comes here he will meet other people who are just starting their lives in Plovdiv. It's not just her! He will come during the holidays. You will come to Plovdiv. You will be proud to have raised a brave young woman.