Hello! I have been married for 18 years, my daughter is 15. In the summer of 2012 I worked as a seasonal worker in Sunny Beach. There I met a boy 13 years younger than me. I am 40 years old and he is 27. I have been living with this boy since October, he is of Turkish origin and I am Roma. My husband makes every effort to get me back, but I don't want to. Our daughter is watching my mother. I love this boy madly. However, we are financially very difficult with him, and we both love each other. No one approves of our relationship. I don't know what to do. Give me some advice
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I advise you not to give up your love, to divorce, if you have an official marriage at all. The most important thing is to find a normal job, maybe abroad. As for your child - he has already grown up, but he will still need help with education, a ball, a start in life. You have nothing to lose. I warmly advise you to find a job abroad with the boy. There, your relationship will be tolerated. Do not make illusions, you will still live miserably, but at least you will have a job and you will be able to send some money to your relatives, and most importantly - no one will blame you and interfere in your life. You will not be a Roma or a Turk there, but just another unqualified guest workers from Bulgaria. Yes, the attitude will not be good, but it will be 100% better than now. Such age-related ties in the West are no exception and no one condemns them. It will be difficult for you, but you will be together and you will be able to help your child financially. As for your marriage - forget it. The past is the past. Good luck