I'm a girl and I'm 17. I don't know where to start. Maybe I've been feeling like this for 2 years. But I realized this winter when my best friend didn't leave me because of the new student in our class. We talk but it's not like before. When I hear them that they will have a party or when I see photos on Facebook on both I feel redundant. I'm not engaged, I haven't had a serious relationship and I haven't kissed but I'm not ashamed of it, I'm just tired of crying and being alone. I went to a psychologist but it didn't help me. The effect was short-lived. I was a much happier person before. Plus no one understands me. I just don't know what to do anymore.
1 ruthielindsey answered
Everyone goes through such stages in their life - be they long or short. I was the same at one time - I was redundant - two of my friends went out, took pictures and so on without calling me. In those moments, I felt, to put it mildly, bad, but I kept telling myself that at some point things would get better, that I would find real girlfriends for me. Almost a year has passed since this period, which lasted about a year or so. Now one of the girls and I are very good friends, and I also found other friends. For not having a boyfriend is not a pain to die. Looking at my peers with their chicken brains, I wonder how one of them can be my friend if he doesn't impress me with anything. The only advice I can give you is to think positively. You are only 17, many things await you: you will go to study, you will meet new people, you will find a boyfriend and girlfriends. GD