I Am Happy With Life And I Always Deal With Problems

   I'm sorry to disappoint you, but you don't know anything about drugs if you think that an 11-year-old addict will stop shaking, even if he's in a commune, if he goes out he'll hang up again for a very short time. I don't know how old you are, I guess you're 15-17, because that statement is pretty naive. I do not deny that you may be familiar with the actions and composition of drugs, do not misunderstand me, but your statement is a fact that shows that you know nothing about drug addiction. I advise you not to waste your time with this person. Do not think that you will be able to help him, you will break a lot of nerves and you will lose a lot of time, lost time and you will regret a lot. Run away from such people and do not interfere with them, they are weak-willed and can only bring you problems, and in your case a broken heart. So, that my advice is to come down to earth and find a decent, smart, independent and self-sufficient boy who will bring you happiness, no tears! PS - Love is blind! Quite a banal line, but if you think about it you will find many truths. Success !

   Well done. 1 congratulations on your 'adequate' attitude. It is obvious that you are very aware of the problem. So let's let them kill themselves and get their hands off them and everything will be fine, huh? Do you want? or is it all up to you when you give such advice? because of people like you, many people fail because they lose people's support (just to let you know that addicts need one while they are being treated), it seems that you are very aware of this problem. And I want to tell you, girl, don't stop supporting him while he is being treated, be honest with your friend and show him that while he is being treated and give his best to do it to him, but do you feel that he starts manipulating you again and lies. That's how you'll find out if he really wants to stop.

   Number 2, to be obviously more adequate than you, reading your naive statement. I am very interested in whether you know addicted people, do you help them? Have you come across such people? Or wait, your virtues will call now and say, "No, but they are people, they need support!" I don't think it was very correct to say that "people like me fail." You're in a big mistake and talk even more about your memorized culture filled with template labels! Addicts, especially those on heroin, have no brakes! There was a boy, intelligent, smart with talent, but unfortunately he shook himself with full force, shaking without even knowing what he was shaking. He ended up in a commune. Is it? Get out of this commune and give gas again. Now I know nothing about its existence. I know another boy, his brain is so fried, that he didn't know what kind of world he was in - he ate glasses, butts ... He spoke incoherently and to tell you personally I gave him support, as you are called, but what they want is money to get drunk again. It's still shaking at the moment. Another boy, shaken by a girl, at least explained it to me. All of them are betting on the next dose, I've seen him endlessly intoxicated with heroin. Another boy, he smoked heroin and hid it from his parents, his girlfriend knew. Finally, this year he confessed to his parents and it started - communes, doctors ... Chatter! The support you are talking about was obvious again. His best friend was next to him, but did you know what the drug addict did after he left the commune? She took money from his wallet, took his phone without his knowledge and bet it, the TV and everything ... Now, however, his girlfriend and his best friend would make fun of him. I can still tell you about my acquaintances, about those who see him every day, but you would hardly understand, simply because you speak sparingly. There are no deals with such people. The support you are talking about, they themselves must realize, and this is not up to the commune. A very small percentage of addicts have become addicted. So it is best for her not to break her nerves, but to run away from him, even if she does not, she will break her own head and after some other time there will be a topic "My heart is broken by a drug addict" and she would wonder how she could afford to deal with such a man where her mind was. She can't help him in any way. Otherwise, the heroin addicts are very sweet-spoken, intoxicated they only want one sex ... Or they start talking to you, that they can stop if they have regular sex and drinking. So, next time, don't go with buckets and memorized remarks, to attack a person you don't even know a gram about. I know these things because I have seen them with my own eyes since I grew up in the so-called underground society. And I'm sure the commune won't help him. Read some psychology and watch a heroin addict, if you want to take him home, give him support, let's see how much this support will save him (they don't appreciate it and they don't care) to see in a month how you will feel and how many things will be carried out by you, how much you will pull back past this man! as I grew up in the so-called underground society. And I'm sure the commune won't help him. Read some psychology and watch a heroin addict, if you want to take him home, give him support, let's see how much this support will save him (they don't appreciate it and they don't care) to see in a month how you will feel and how many things will be carried out by you, how much you will pull back past this man! as I grew up in the so-called underground society. And I'm sure the commune won't help him. Read some psychology and watch a heroin addict, if you want to take him home, give him support, let's see how much this support will save him (they don't appreciate it and they don't care) to see in a month how you will feel and how many things will be carried out by you, how much you will pull back past this man!

   NUMBER 2 if you are dealing with a drug addict we will talk in another month!

   From number 3 hahaha :) lest he manipulate you with suicide. Clear, clear ... They commit suicide themselves, unfortunately you are not God and you can't help him in any way :)

   Hello nom. 3 - nom. I am 2 - let me inform you that this support you are talking about is not any support and I am very angry with people who do not adequately respond to the problem of giving money to the People's Commissar and allowing him to steal from you is the worst thing you can do but you obviously didn't know it, and since this so-called support of yours didn't work, you hurried to get away from the person. If you were more interested, a few specialists would tell you that this is the wrong thing to do. Instead of helping him realize that he needs to be treated, to create incentives for him and to show him that there is a reason to live, you hurried to run away. Yes, it's easier that way, and I'm angry about that. Don't you understand that they are like us and they are people. they just can't stand all the pain that life brings. I know an awful lot of addicts. I also know many people who have been healed and at the moment they are much stronger than us who are healthy. My husband is a drug addict and is currently being treated. We have a child of almost a year and I have not for a moment regretted being with him. I fight on a par with him and I am convinced of everything I have said so far. I am aware of absolutely all their manipulations and machinations that I can create because I have experienced them on my own back. I have talked to many specialists (although there are few in our country) and I continue to do so, attending seminars and interdependence groups. I still don't know everything about drugs, but what I've learned so far from specialists and former drug addicts does a great job. And the support is not to leave it to fate and never take an interest in it again, and in putting it on the edge and realizing that it will rot slowly on its own. When I met my husband, he was clean for a year and could not cope with the responsibility he took and in combination with his confused parents and family started again. but I have not for a moment regretted that I am snowing and I am glad that I am the stimulus he needs to get better. I will always be by his side but not instead of him. So don't tell me I'm writing clichés because I've made a lot of mistakes like yours and denying some sick people is not a solution. I will always be by his side but not instead of him. So don't tell me I'm writing clichés because I've made a lot of mistakes like yours and denying some sick people is not a solution. I will always be by his side but not instead of him. So don't tell me I'm writing clichés because I've made a lot of mistakes like yours and denying some sick people is not a solution.

   I did not give a definite opinion, people said that every rule has an exception. The exceptions in this area are very small, unfortunately you can't convince me otherwise. It is your personal destiny that you have started such a person, obviously his condition was not so bad or he really loves you when he fights, and you when you are with him and give him "support". I have not made mistakes in this area, which we are commenting on, I would not allow such a person next to me in any way, DO NOT take the words out of context! And my position remains that even if you explain to him how he shouldn't shake, how he should do it, that doesn't make sense, and I think it would be pretty stupid to say so, based on your personal example, because the figure of drug addicts is quite large, as well as those who were in a commune and there is no effect ... My husband tried heroin twice, which of course he admitted, he was dragged by a heroin addict. After his confession, he paid a lot of money in front of me, because I am building a career and I do not intend to be with a person who is weak at all! In my opinion, this dispute is over, the good thing is that two different ones have emerged, which exist, which more, which less. The important thing is that there is a field of choice. Right? You choose your path, the person, etc., like me, like the others, etc., etc. An endless cycle! I wish you success ! And the next time don't go forward with the horns, the meaning of this will not be revealed ... pay me very salty in front of me, because I am building a career and I do not intend to be with a person who shows weakness at all! In my opinion, this dispute is over, the good thing is that two different ones have emerged, which exist, which more, which less. The important thing is that there is a field of choice. Right? You choose your path, the person, etc., like me, like the others, etc., etc. An endless cycle! I wish you success ! And the next time don't go forward with the horns, the meaning of this will not be revealed ... pay me very salty in front of me, because I am building a career and I do not intend to be with a person who shows weakness at all! In my opinion, this dispute is over, the good thing is that two different ones have emerged, which exist, which more, which less. The important thing is that there is a field of choice. Right? You choose your path, the person, etc., like me, like the others, etc., etc. An endless cycle! I wish you success ! And the next time don't go forward with the horns, the meaning of this will not be revealed ... like the others, etc., etc. An endless cycle! I wish you success ! And the next time don't go forward with the horns, the meaning of this will not be revealed ... like the others, etc., etc. An endless cycle! I wish you success ! And the next time don't go forward with the horns, the meaning of this will not be revealed ...

   And you can't claim that I give an inadequate opinion, on the contrary it is quite adequate, but you take a different position. Conversation, communication is not imposing an opinion, but extracting information, considering different opinions, you can not reject the opinion of another, and especially an opinion that is supported by a disgusting number of facts, arguments, etc. Think about how many people are left with a drug addict, how many are drug addicts who really care about these people, how many are drug addicts who leave the commune and do not hang up again after leaving, how many drug addicts have failed to fight. There are many more than those who managed to get rid of.

   I hope the girl who shared her story has decided how to proceed. I have not tried to impose an opinion. I just expressed mine and many other people whose families have been affected by drugs. I'm just asking why deny help to a person who has decided to be treated and needs it? You are right that the number of drug addicts who have failed to recover is large, but this does not mean that it is too late for them. Maybe what they lack is support. You are also the first that the conversation is an exchange of information and opinions and thank you for having it with me I know that many people share what you say. My husband is very right in saying that a man loves himself the most. Good luck to you too!

   The first time I came across boys who had this problem, I tried talking, with moral support, other times I gave money as a good friend. Of course, I did not allow myself a connection with them, but my first acquaintances with such people showed that I could be relied on. However, there is no effect from this. And I realized that all they cared about was finding a way to get to the dose. I have also witnessed many violent scandals between son and mother, very harsh words, actions. From the mother's harassed gaze, tears, swollen eyes, I knew that talking and moral support made no sense. I also read letters from a mother who hung them on the walls of the boy's room. It didn't make sense ... I'm glad I didn't get into deep contact with such guys and everything was on the level of friendship. Maybe their brains are already fried enough and there's no way out. Probably the number of drug addicts who try to break away from heroin and really appreciate what people do for them for a very minimal percentage. I have not met such. Like I said, my husband used hertz, and before we met he was on amphetamines. In fact, I didn't know about its frequent use, but I found out about it after we got together, but I didn't understand it in the way: "I'm sniffing!", And "I stopped sniffing!". Anyway ... For me, this topic is already exhausted. and before we met he was in amphetamines. In fact, I didn't know about its frequent use, but I found out about it after we got together, but I didn't understand it in the way: "I'm sniffing!", And "I stopped sniffing!". Anyway ... For me, this topic is already exhausted. and before we met he was in amphetamines. In fact, I didn't know about its frequent use, but I found out about it after we got together, but I didn't understand it in the way: "I'm sniffing!", And "I stopped sniffing!". Anyway ... For me, this topic is already exhausted.

   Thank you for your comments, it will help me a lot if you write to me directly by e-mail: [email protected] Thank you in advance, there are more things I have not said, I just do not have time.

   I'm sorry, but I have a little daughter, and if I found out about her one day, I'd be blown away. If you know so well what diseases they carry, you are probably not afraid of AIDS. Life is 1 and we should appreciate it. What kind of children can you create from 1 addict. I am writing to you as a mother and I want to cry for yours. I really have a son who is 6 and I imagine things on the other side, but why should you be YOU.

   Are you Mother Teresa? I hope your parents understand what you are involved in, I think that if they are stable people only they can get you out of the delusion.

   Dear lady, as you understand, my child is from a drug addict and is a completely healthy and cheerful child, he is not sick of anything and I assure you that he is a completely normal child. And I also want to tell you that no matter how much you imagine what's on the other side, you can't fully understand, but that shouldn't stop you from being human. Only the mothers of drug addicts know what it is. I sincerely wish you not to become one of them.

   Hi, I'm the one who shared my story, I'm sorry to write like that, but I don't have a specific computer language and it's like writing in English. I don't pretend to be Mother Teresa, I just love this person more than myself, which shouldn't be the case, but .... I know what drugs are, where I live there are over 5 posts where heroin, amphetamines, weed, coca are sold and ecstasy. I myself take responsibility for going with such a person, I will not get rid of him because he needs my support. She had more than 20 phones and they all went to no pawnshop. I'm a puddle of people who love and admire me just to suck any money out of them. To let my friend take care not to be in crisis and not to do nonsense that he will later regret. I know what's wrong with his mother, we're in a very good relationship, we are not with his grandmother because she thinks that her grandson has moved again because of me, that he lost his job because of me and so on. His mother is a good person, I don't know how she fooled all this for 11 years, now she has been tormented by a program for 3 months to get in there and she still can't do it with thousands of sedatives and the next day she is in office again. I still love him and I understand that there must be a lot of great will to give up.

   Hello, I wrote to you yesterday on the emails you gave here. Write to me I can help you. What you and his mother do is not help, this is the worst thing you can do for a drug addict. THIS IS NOT A HELP, YOU DESTROY HIM AND YOURSELF. It's called codependence. You do everything an addict does just without shaking. This way you will get nowhere just by continuing the agony. Write me.

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   I will tell you again there are no impossible things can be given up: P

   Thanks for the comment. And is it normal when they start in the program to beat him and take him home. Can drugs be stopped this way?

   I think I remember which program your friend is in. Well, it's not normal. With a fight, if something was achieved, there would be no nakman. But it doesn't happen that way. It is not normal for you to be abused for anything, even for that. Write me if you want to email me I'm n.17

   You said it yourself .. everyone is a pessimist, don't you think it's not a coincidence YOU'RE WRONG not others, you are blind because you love him and it's not just a cliché subconsciously you want the best, so you don't see the harsh truth, but he will show it to you 11 years old !!!! THERE IS JUST NO SALVATION :) and since you think you understand more about drugs than others, why are you thinking this wrong? You will not say that you know something .. because you read it or they told you .. and only if you have experienced it and with training there may be former drug addicts .. but if there are they will have been drug addicts in quotes forty .. but become a drug addict and then nail them to me, this liner