I Am Dissatisfied-chloecamxoxo

   You both itch and it hurts .. watch porn and touch, you have no other option, if we exclude infidelity ..

   And I'm unhappy because my boyfriend dumped me without a mercy option in his sexual experiences. I want it to go crazy but I am explicitly told not to approach it as unshared and I reject it unbearably. Three months, but I'm a miracle people wonder if I break it to put it with someone. Anyway, the ex doesn't want me. His other old loves have kept them for years for sex. The sex must have been divine so I could go out and calm down. I'm going to burst with hormones really

   Author, why don't you and your husband consider swinging? We've been practicing for maybe a year, and that takes our relationship to a whole new level. And we were stuck in everyday life like you, but so - empathizing with other couples - it's as if we started our relationship from the beginning. It's not scary, believe me. As long as your husband is willing to accept this type of sexual intercourse. We do not like the so-called group sex, i.e. four or five couples together, nor single partners - be it a man or a woman. We just communicate with other families, meet, have dinner together, and then - and only if we like each other! - there is a sequel in the evening. This usually happens once a month. Many of these people we already call our friends, we have established lasting relationships, we call each other, we write to each other, and when we meet, we have fun. Apart from the fact that in this way we emotionally refreshed our relationship, the sex between me and my husband became much more active and passionate. I guess your husband won't mind. With us, too, I was the initiator and my idea was accepted with enthusiasm. It is very important, however, that you accept that your husband will make love to another woman, and that he has no problem seeing you with another man. In these meetings, usually everyone starts with their own partner, and now, when the passions are heated, the exchange in different configurations follows. I am a woman of 47 years. and he has no problem seeing you with another man. In these meetings, usually everyone starts with their own partner, and now, when the passions are heated, the exchange in different configurations follows. I am a woman of 47 years. and he has no problem seeing you with another man. In these meetings, usually everyone starts with their own partner, and now, when the passions are heated, the exchange in different configurations follows. I am a woman of 47 years.

   I feel the same way (M 34) and although I don't have a permanent relationship at the moment, it hurts when I think about how I would upset a future woman (and I've already upset the current one). For me, the ideal option is to tell your husband and he will let you. You say you wouldn't agree, but at least you can tell him - that's what it's like for people to be close to each other. In general, would you agree to a partial solution - for example, to flirt with men without having sex or to have sex without penetration (for no risk of pregnancy and disease)? If I loved a woman, I would allow the two of us to break up with such a condition. The rest is active masturbation, virtual sex (in which there is always a risk to turn into real ...), indulging in erotic creativity - writing stories, drawing :)

   3, just out of curiosity - how do you find such couples and do you take precautions? Because, for example, I don't like a condom. And my husband would never agree to swing.

   Experiment in sex, different types, poses. Anal wouldn't refuse if you hadn't already. Go out somewhere in nature, do it in unusual places, in the bushes in the woods, in the car. Go to a bar or cafe and say you really want it right now and do it in the toilet. There are options, as long as he is not a strong supporter of traditional things. If not, just talk, tell him you're missing something and come to a decision. There are options, do not be silent. Infidelity is not a good option.

   Author, I'm the exact opposite of you. When I'm in love, I don't want to be with another and I can't with another. And because things are very wrong with the man I'm in love with at the moment, I can't be with him, and the thought of being with someone else makes me sick and I roar. And I'm a 29-year-old woman, I've been through a lot, I've just always been a woman for a man. Apparently there are all kinds of people, and if the same principles apply to you, you will not be able to overcome it. I've been trying for almost two years and it doesn't work. I think you have to come to terms with the fact that these feelings of yours will not disappear and from there decide whether you can live with them or you have to do something to satisfy them.

   I'll tell you the truth. A person spends his whole life looking for happiness in something, as a child they are toys, when you grow up you may have sex but you always get bored and look for "something new", but in time you will get tired of the other partner. Rest a little, start going out in nature, meditate and find peace in your life. Do not use sex as a drug to "satisfy" the emptiness in yourself, no one will fill it like that. Lastly, I would recommend you to read about the 7 sins, even if you are not religious (I am not either), there is a lot of truth there and I think it will help you and show you that the new partner will not satisfy you, just like a temporary pacifier after which you will start looking for a new one. Happiness is in nature, believe me, look for it there!

   I have neither a husband nor am I married, but I am dissatisfied. It's not that you're married.

   If you want sex and butterflies with other men so much, but you are sure that you will not do it, then you are at a dead end! Obviously, with a woman is not an option? Have you talked to him about this problem?

   Either you leave him and start having great sex, but I don't see you giving up a good husband, a house, money, or you find something to do, or you cheat on him, he understands and you go back to first grade. The other is bad literature - butterflies in the stomach and other nonsense.

   You have everything and because of one variety, you can lose it. Believe me, every relationship reaches the stage I'm tired of. But do not change the man, but the attitude, the situation, the attitude. A single woman in her 40s.

   Are you sure you wouldn't agree to swing? Talk openly with him and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want to try and diversify. I am a middle-aged man, married with a happy marriage and a good sex life, and although everything seems to be fine, I offered my wife a threesome with another man. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with diversifying from time to time in a variety of configurations out of pure physical curiosity. It is much better to satisfy our instincts and fantasies together than to get to a point where we hide from each other for these purely physiological needs. Talk about these things - they are important. I guess he also has certain fantasies that he did not dare to share with you, without even assuming that you would gladly make them come true.

   1. I like the competent presentation of the text. 2. "Swingers" you say? And you say you're a middle-aged woman? It seems unlikely to me that a middle-aged Bulgarian woman living in Bulgaria uses this word. Now you will say that you are not with us? :) 3. There is nothing wrong with polygamy. However, as long as the cards are on the table and both partners are aware of this! 4. An interesting provocation. w 30

   Then you will regret it because it is a betrayal against your family and husband.

   15, correctly felt that there was something rotten. However, it is not a provocation, but I have deliberately given scarce and in some places perhaps wrong information so that there is no risk of being recognized. Otherwise, in principle, everything is true except for some details, but they do not matter much.

   1. My problem is that monogamy is not for me. I need a variety of partners because of the diversity itself. 2. I want to experience the excitement of the first meeting again. I want the famous butterflies to flutter again. I don't know women's feelings and desires, but aren't these completely different things. On the one hand, you are talking about pure sexual dissatisfaction (both from the title and the introduction, and from point 1), and on the other hand, about experiencing again the emotion of falling in love, desire and feeling when you were with a specific person for the first time. .n. / point 2 /. What or what exactly do you want - just to fuck or to relive the emotion with someone you really like. Or both ......... but if the latter is more, monogamy can't be for you, because being constantly in emotion with different partners, it's just not like changing them just for sex. I don't think it's about any butterflies, you're just fucking with another man. It is!

   author hello, hello and everyone else, I'm a man who all his life put it wherever he wants, yes it's a feeling that few people can experience it and understand how we feel at birth hyper sexual and dissatisfied I'm writing to you because all life women have run away from me because of my desire for sex I must have come across those who do not like sex for this I ran away from Sofia in a small beautiful and well-kept village where there is everything you dream of but no women and goes crazy but I calmed down now I only think of one if she appears from somewhere and I make her cherished twins and we live calmly and pleasantly but where is she ....

   I'm number 3 in response to number 5 at his request. How do we find such couples, you ask? Well, we initially registered on specialized sites. That's how we came across our first partners. Some we liked, others we didn't. Those we liked introduced us to their friends from then on, they in turn introduced us to others and so on ... Ie. it is a rather closed society, but if you manage to enter it, you meet wonderful, intelligent, educated and open-minded people with whom it is pleasant to communicate. We rarely admit untested people among us, but there is always a first time and usually everyone is extremely tolerant of newcomers. On the second question: about condoms. They are mandatory. But when two couples really get to know each other and have full confidence, this obligation is waived if one of the four is not comfortable. My husband, for example, hates condoms. He uses them to make sure his partner and her husband are safe, but never with me. However, we have friends with whom we trust each other to such an extent that we do not use condoms. Everyone is responsible to the other and this is an iron rule. Personally, I would never allow myself to be in contact with another couple, if I have the slightest doubt that at all, perhaps, I might have some even elementary health problem like the flu. I think the author underestimates her husband. If you talked to him openly, shared how he felt, I don't think he would give up on such an exciting variety. Talk, people, communicate with each other! Otherwise, we all know how such emotional and sexual deficits end. Why ruin your life when you can still rediscover eroticism,

   The solution is only one, there are foreign sites where you can have sex with each other but only virtually, most hide their faces and write what they want the other to do, or to show his ass or posture or other fantasies, you can do it together because there are those who like to do it in front of others in a small light, there are many options but never destroy the family, you have no idea how sorry you will be, use toys, change sex positions and sex habits with your husband, and most importantly FIND A JOB, all these thoughts come when someone has no job or is busy with light work or nonsense.

   And do you have children? If you don't have one - that's the problem ... in our words, but not quite. Masturbate more. Diversify your sex with your husband.

   Dissatisfied purely physically, emotionally or both ... How does it sound to your husband to fuck you while you tell him "enough"? Would that be enough for you? I'm not just saying that ... I mean something. You dare not put the question of "another" in front of him. And for the "other"? Take him for a threesome with a lady? How are you on the topic of "bi"? How do you find virtual communication in this direction? You could flirt, make fun of strangers without getting to a real date. This is not infidelity in principle, but it is dangerous if they get caught ... :) But there is a thrill ...

   Up to number 13 - attitude, settings, etc. do not change just like that! We need reasons for this. Why are you lonely?

   I don't understand why people like the author get married. Monogamy was not for her, but otherwise she has been married for years and has been struggling internally for years with her desires for many different partners?!? I don't see the logic. Maybe that's where all the torment comes from - you've been trying to be someone else all your life. In my opinion, there are three options: 1. You break up with your husband and from there you plan things as you know how. 2. You stay together and try to convince him to swing, but here you are in danger of pushing him away from you. 3. You stay together and you continue to suffer. Otherwise, number 8 wrote you good and true things, you will not go wrong if you think about his comment.

   Midlife crisis - it's normal. It will pass.

   To number 24: well, my husband just dumped me for another woman and for these few years after the divorce I never met a man for a serious relationship. Everyone wants casual sex, I tried, but for me it is not the famous variety that the author dreams of. We women are so organized that when we like sex with a man we fall in love and want something more, with men it is not so. For the author: sex is one thing, emotions and butterflies in the stomach - something completely different. A 45-year-old woman with a past

   It is a pity that so many ladies here complain of sexual dissatisfaction. This is not at all enviable. In the United States, the problem of dissatisfied wives seeking diversity and new adventures is most often solved by threesomes with gifted black men. Many married couples then say that such a swing unites their relationship and charges them with new sexual energy. The ladies had a lot of fun, relaxed, dressed sexier. Orgasms changed them. And husbands are happy that their wives are reaching new levels of pleasure, hitherto unmatched in married sex life. Your husband may be passionate about the idea if he cares about your condition and wants you to be happy. It will only be difficult that there are not many Negroes in Bulgaria.

   I will believe that you still love your husband, although I have some doubts about the mention of "butterflies in the stomach" ... You say that you are sexually dissatisfied, even though you often have quality sex. However, you dream of having sex with other men. This tells me that you may have some unconscious fixation on certain sexual fantasies. In other words, this is called nymphomania (hypersexuality). This is a condition in which you feel constantly dissatisfied sexually. The problem is that on a subconscious level, you think there is always something to improve in sex, and that's why there is a need for this "diversity" as you call it. In the extreme variations of this "disease", women often have serious difficulty finding a permanent partner. I put the quotes on purpose, because the condition in question is not considered a medical problem. After all, it is normal for women to have some sexual desire and instinct for reproduction. However, there are clearly many women and men in whom this limit of normal sexual desire is crossed for one reason or another. The reasons can be both psychological and physiological. To the psychological reasons can be included, the problems in the family in the early years of childhood. If, of course, you were a child of divorced parents, and other similar options. Physiological causes can come from damaged nerves in certain parts of the brain, as well as damaged blood vessels. Author, obviously in your case, this is not about any of the extreme variants of nymphomania, but you probably have a milder degree. I think so, because otherwise you would hardly be able to last years in this state. Maybe it's time to consult a psychologist or sexologist, because you alone will hardly be able to overcome these symptoms. I wonder how your husband has never understood about this so-called "problem" of yours? Apparently, the man still doesn't know much about his own wife, and there are supposedly some sublime feelings. You should have trusted him and talked about it, because it's just not fair to him - the man you claim to love. I wish you success in finding a solution! the man, however, does not know much about his own wife, and it is as if some sublime feelings are at stake. You should have trusted him and talked about it, because it's just not fair to him - the man you claim to love. I wish you success in finding a solution! the man, however, does not know much about his own wife, and it is as if some sublime feelings are at stake. You should have trusted him and talked about it, because it's just not fair to him - the man you claim to love. I wish you success in finding a solution!

   I know it will sound unpleasant, but you have a problem - both with you and with your innocent husband. The strange thing is that you are ready to share your fantasies with the whole world (albeit anonymously), and you certainly did not do it with your closest person. Your romantic impulse will lead you to infidelity the most (in fact, you are ALREADY cheating). It would be fairer to tell your husband about it, to leave him, and to sleep lame and crippled when you can't help it. But this will fail you. You slide on a dangerous plane that will inevitably lead you into the abyss.

   A 27-year-old woman. I am. I have been married for a year, otherwise we have been together for about 9 years. with my husband. He was my first and I have never cheated on him. About 2 years ago, he started mentioning to me that he liked watching me with someone else. We are very relaxed and love the unusual things in bed. We tried a lot of things. That didn't surprise me. Maybe if your husband was like mine, you would be happy and feel the thrill I can feel. I've been without him a few times just because it excites him and he likes it. In general, I prefer to be together because I keep thinking about it ... Do you think he would share you with someone else, but with his presence?

   I do not know. I do not recommend it. But if you try with a woman, I think you will rediscover yourself and go in the right direction.

   You are a dream woman. Talk to your husband and make a foursome with another family or a threesome with a friend of yours!

   It is good to know what this "temptation" is, and temptations come to us almost every day, for one reason or another. And we begin to torment ourselves that we cannot satisfy our desire, and to consider OUR RIGHT to satisfy them, because "this is how we are arranged." There is a moral law in this life - in the case that once you are married, you have no right to EVEN THINK about other relationships. What you are writing is a kind of perversion, but a perversion of the inviolability of marriage - doesn't it impress you? Realize that this is a temptation and fight it. If you leave your husband for such simplicity, it means that you are a victim of unclean urges. Many pedophiles have the same passion (passion means "suffering" in Old Slavonic) as you. Well - is it justified to seduce or rape children then? I don't want you to be impressed, that I am churching you, but temptations definitely belong to the realm of the spiritual, and only the Church has an answer for them. Agape.

   I fully support number 34. Try to diversify M46 together

   Hello, you ask if only you feel like this - it's not just you, I - too. And I can't accept infidelity as a solution to this problem, because I can't cheat, nor can I swing, I guess my husband does too (I'm ashamed to ask). The difference for me is that this feeling appeared after the children left the "nest" and I have more free time, before that I had not thought about another man. I would not call it exactly sexual dissatisfaction, but rather the sadness of aging and the fact that I will live my life with only one man (30 years of marriage) and I will not have other impressions of sex. Sometimes sexual desire appears, but if by chance someone pays attention to me and shows that he likes me. This is just a small part of everything I want to share with the author. I may have been helpful.

   38, and maybe he has similar torments, but he also doesn't dare to take up the topic ... It would be good if you could think of a way to remotely, slightly ambiguously, jokingly ... wait for her. How are you watching porn? What is his sexual activity. How jealous is he?

   Up to 39 - my husband has always been sexually more active than me and in this respect I am one of the "lucky ones", I have never missed sex, I have even had more ... And he has never been jealous of me, because I I didn't give him a reason for that. But for swing - I don't think he will agree, and this seems to me something distant and impossible - I only associate it with the movies :), maybe we have too many reservations. There is certainly torment, there are temptations at every step :), young, beautiful, but he hasn't cheated on me for maybe ten years.

   Hello! I am a man, I also have a similar problem. I'm not engaged I have sex every day with different people, etc. But this is not the solution to the problem in a forum I read that the best way to solve the state of mind is, try to write to express with a diary / book what it is and be your innermost thoughts, secrets, sexual greens and dreams and things like that. This helped me to realize myself personally. I do not recommend you to cheat, and I am also against cheating, so when I had this problem I tried to stay unattached so as not to hurt the people around me. After you write this, if there comes a moment / day when you feel like that, just open and read what you wrote and you will realize and you will not feel like that. Success!

   To the Author: Your desires are not so perverted. It is best to talk to your husband. Once you have quality sex, offer some news. For example, buy a dildo and put it in the love game. Imagine that someone else fucks you while your wife uses it on you while she has oral sex at the same time. At some point, when he sees how much fun you have, he will notice. It is suggested that you share your fantasies and start first with someone more innocent. And he shared that communication will have already opened. Then tell him you're curious about a third. It often happens that the husband's first fantasy is not on a monogamous topic. Another option is to (start) watching porn together. if you watch one, two videos, play one with a threesome. There are many amateur videos of couples with third parties on popular porn sites. Look for hotwife threesome. Infidelity is the worst option for you. I hope you can talk to your husband about it. I guarantee you that just sharing fantasies will take your relationship and sex to a new level. Fantasies can only remain fantasies, but become a roaring element in your sexual repertoire. Don't be afraid of one sharing. Good luck.