Hello, writes an 18-year-old boy. In general, I have something like a problem that may be on a mental basis, or it may just be weird as a physique. I have a relatively high self-esteem because I try to be good to everyone and I work very hard to be able to do what I love - I am an artistic person myself, but I have a very strange problem. In short, I hate my body. In the last 5 years (maybe the years when puberty enters and you start to realize what kind of person you are, how you look, etc.) I went through different stages of my body - like every person: D During them I was definitely not fat, at one time I was even terribly weak after I got sick and I didn't look like anything (according to people). But there is one feature, which I don't see in my other friends and in general boys and men I've seen without a t-shirt no matter on TV or live. My body is somewhat girlish. Yes, I have shoulders, I have a back that distinguishes me as a man, but I also have the so-called "slings" or even if they are not slings, they are just something like a bigger bone. It's like my body makes an hourglass . This stops me from wearing tight t-shirts and I even go against the wind, I pull my t-shirt forward so that it doesn't stick to my body and it shows: D I wear wide t-shirts to look "more rectangular", but again is a shame from my body. I'm quite tall - about 1.86 and as I said, I'm not fat, maybe with enough fitness I would get the figure of a perfect American superhero, but I'm not into fitness, muscles, tiles, etc. - I just don't like that. I like to play sports when I kick, but no further. I just see how men, fatter or thinner, have normal bodies, and now I realize that I will probably be like that for the rest of my life because at 13 I thought that puberty would overcome that, but I grew up, I grew stronger, I grew bearded. so to speak, but my body remained strange. I have a girlfriend who loves me the way I am, but here the thing is to love even the shortcomings of the other. Does anyone else have a similar body structure or does anyone care if it's just the more common structure or this one? I was bearded, so to speak, but my body remained strange. I have a girlfriend who loves me the way I am, but here the thing is to love even the shortcomings of the other. Does anyone else have a similar body structure or does anyone care if it's just the more common structure or this one? I was bearded, so to speak, but my body remained strange. I have a girlfriend who loves me the way I am, but here the thing is to love even the shortcomings of the other. Does anyone else have a similar body structure or does anyone care if it's just the more common structure or this one?
1 danger_play answered
What problems do people have, if you know - and still live that they are arrogant.