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I Am Aggressive

By sweetanddelicate1990 July 04, 2020 1 answer Last updated July 04, 2020

Hi, I'm a 16-year-old boy. Some time ago I was one of those boys who dress a little more muffin, go out only with girls, etc. Very often at school, my classmates throw insults such as: "fagot", "pedal" and the like.

 

At first, I didn't pay attention, but gradually I started to get annoyed by it. I was subjected to mental violence, and once to physical violence. About 6 months ago, I ended my relationship with the old company and my ex-best friend's boyfriend jumped into a fight. After this incident, I closed myself in and started behaving rudely and aggressively with everyone.

 

For these 6 months, I have changed completely. I became very aggressive and solved my problems with a fight. Anyone who annoys or insults me, I burst into fights. At school, they started to be afraid of me and I was left completely alone. I don't have any friends, I don't communicate with anyone and my question is this: How can I learn to control my aggression and how can I get closer to someone from my school?

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cuumbaby7 answered · July 04, 2020
It is obvious that you have gone from one extreme to the other. Now you have to learn to be balanced. Muffin behavior and dress by a boy will really cause ridicule. Not that you have no right, but the association is just that. Try to defend yourself without being aggressive. It, and I myself do not believe that it can happen, knowing how much is the culture of the people.