I Am A Virgin And I Ask For Advice

   Hello, author, with these 3 lines of information it will be difficult to get an adequate answer. Tell us more about yourself, why do you think you haven't had intimate contact with a girl so far, what kind of character are you - maybe more shy and closed? You say that there are no girls in your workplace, but you still have a life outside of work - don't you go out with friends, don't you meet new people? Give a little more detail so that people can possibly help with an opinion.

   You can even meet a girl in the gym or yoga class, in a foreign language course and in general in any place where people gather to study, play sports or practice something together. Another thing to tell you - from fairy tale to fairy tale, you make jokes and jokes. Gradually you become friends, you go out together, then your outings become more frequent. You go to the movies, theater, mountains together ... If you go to such places together and spend time with each other, then there is sympathy, attraction ... At some point, at a dance, disco or something like that, you kiss her, and if she responds - It's easy now.

   I still can't figure out what a "virgin man" is! Come on, it's understandable for girls / women - they have a zipper called "hymen", which breaks the first time! And men don't have that! I'm just curious!

   Try sex sites - just for sex, like gepime. Or tinder. There, girls think only of sex and most are married or with boyfriends, looking for fun. Create a profile and that's it ... I'm convinced that you will catch a chick (use condoms, this guy can stick everything on you). First you need some sex, so, love in the background for now, then you will look for it. Come on, don't despair.

   This is an answer from another topic, which is the most correct and meaningful answer in the whole forum. Read it, understand it and it will be useful for you: Shyness is one of the most serious problems for a man. You have to make a conscious effort to overcome it, because it will hinder you for the rest of your life, and not only with women. First, start by changing your inner conviction of who you are, what you represent as a person, and how you feel about yourself. You must consciously build in yourself through repeated repetition, the firm conviction that you are a wonderful, dignified and confident man who walks through life with a proud head held high, who knows what he wants and how to achieve it and who has dreams that will achieve whatever it costs him. In short, you must have the conviction that "You are the Man." Here I am not talking about being arrogant and behaving arrogantly with others, I am talking about radiating confidence and calmness that whatever happens around you cannot affect your inner principles and cannot distract you from your goals. It will be difficult to imagine it at first, but if you persist, it will become part of your inner radiance. And people will feel it, because your behavior will change. The second phase is to force yourself to communicate with all kinds of people in order to break your shame of communication. Become a master of the short conversation. Talk about whatever you like - whomever you like - saleswomen, seniors (very gracious interlocutors), waiters, the master of your car, random people on the street ... use every occasion to talk and try to keep it for a little longer, than you are comfortable with. If you can do it, it will become easier and easier. Soon you will have no problem having a conversation with anyone, and the beautiful women for you will just be what they really are ... people like everyone else. And now the women. Remember from me that women like to be led by confident and dominant men. If you want success with them, you have to be unshakably confident, a dominant man who knows how to make decisions and makes the woman feel safe with him in every way you can imagine. That's why they don't like insecure and shy men ... they just don't have the balls to do what it takes to be with a woman. They sit in the corner, scared to death of rejection, and prefer to do nothing just to keep their fragile egos. The shy put the woman above them, they are afraid of her and put her on a pedestal. There is no woman in this world who feels sexually attracted to a man who has placed her above him and views her as some kind of supernaturally frightening creature. Once you are confident in the conversations, first start communicating with women on neutral topics and without a sexual context. Gradually like some of them and try to become more sexual with them - hang them, blur them, look them in the eyes, lightly touch them and offer them to see each other in private. Don't worry about giving up in any way and don't take it personally. Not everyone has to like you, and that's perfectly fine. Lastly - your personal life. You must have a life full of events and interesting activities. Women are irresistibly attracted to men with interesting lives, who passionately follow their dreams and manage to attract women to their world. For you, women should not be an end in themselves, but a source of pleasant sensations. The paradox is that when you stop taking them seriously and giving them too much importance, they start to feel terribly attracted to you. I hope I was at least a little helpful. Success!