Hello! Oh I just can't believe there are others like me. I'm also 16, but I'm a boy, which is even worse because sensitivity suits girls better than boys, but that doesn't matter now. I've learned a lot this year, and one of them is that I have to be myself, not pretend to be someone I'm not, so be yourself. My other advice to you is when someone tries to hurt you in some way, whether it will be with criticism or something else, it doesn't matter, don't give in to him, just hit him back. Because the other thing I've learned is that you shouldn't be silent, so you shouldn't be silent. Also, sometimes tell yourself that people who don't understand you and stay away from you are not at your level and that you are more than them. I know most people won't agree with that now, which I wrote in the previous sentence, but this is one way not to collapse. I would also suggest that you find a hobby that you don't think about the bad people in the world. For example, I like to walk in parks, groves near the city and in general where there are birds, so I can take pictures of them. I also love reading books and watching movies, they just take me to a different, better world. Another important thing to do is when you realize that you are starting to analyze certain situations that I guess are not good, to erase them from your mind as soon as possible and to start thinking more positively. At least I do so, because I, like you, constantly analyze the bad moments and forget the good things that happen to us. That's why lately I've been trying to think more positively. You also don't have to cry in front of people, who do not deserve it, cry only in front of people who are worthy of your tears. I personally prefer to shed my tears for a good movie or a good book. Also, don't forget to be different, show people who think that nowadays all girls are the same, that they are muffins and, except for sex, they are not wrong, they are wrong and they are not right. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your story I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I am 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents are not separated. Do you understand me??? I personally prefer to shed my tears for a good movie or a good book. Also, don't forget to be different, show people who think that nowadays all girls are the same, that they are muffins and, except for sex, they are not wrong, they are wrong and they are not right. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your history I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I am 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents are not separated. Do you understand me??? I personally prefer to shed my tears for a good movie or a good book. Also, don't forget to be different, show people who think that nowadays all girls are the same, that they are muffins and, except for sex, they are not wrong, they are wrong and they are not right. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your story I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I'm 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents not separated. Do you understand me??? that they are wrong and wrong. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your history I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I am 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents are not separated. Do you understand me??? that they are wrong and wrong. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your history I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I'm 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents not separated. Do you understand me???
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I'm an 18-year-old girl and I want to tell you that I'm the same. I take offense very easily, but I do my best not to show it. I haven't been able to give you advice or help, but sometimes knowing that there are others like you is reassuring.