How Would You React In Such A Situation On Christmas? I'm Tired Of Malice And Negativity!

I am a young man of 22 years, At Christmas, at the table for a simple dispute on a normal topic of life, I defended my opinion, but my mother's friend aggressively as a primitive creature raised my voice and my mother intervened to say that it is not good at Christmas to talk this way and stop, at which point this man got up from the couch and aggressively started screaming and shaking. With the words that he was not guilty of anything, but he was shouting and behaving in the most disgusting and rude way, as if he would jump on both of us and beat us. Things were going almost to battle. My mind prevailed and I hugged my mother and reassured her. I did not say anything bad or offensive, I just defended my thesis on the topic we commented on. A few positive things can be said about him as a person, but the negative ones are tens and tens of times more. You can't talk to this nervous person. He comes home from work and sits on brandy and salad. I don't know if his mother wears it, but in general he cooks and cleans sometimes. They do the housework with their mother together, sometimes just her, sometimes just him. His understandings and way of thinking are outdated and he cannot be given reason. For him, young people are useless and he grew up at the right time. He talks about how arrogant and stupid people were, how bad his bosses were at work. That he is hardworking is hardworking, but he cannot shout aggressively at the table and at the woman you live with. I still tremble at this scandal just remembering. I was on the scales to get up and act with force, but my mind prevailed and I decided to shut up and hug her. I want to emphasize that such scandals have happened before, he shouted at my mother in front of me. But as in this case it was not. Last Christmas he also ruined it in a similar way with his anger and aggression. So I am writing this one in order to advise me what to talk to my mother, because I have nothing to talk to him about. I'm considering stopping talking to him altogether, but that will reflect on my mother. Because this man is primitive and stupid. I wonder if I should shake his hand when we see each other and if I should talk to him. I don't think it's worth it at all. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). In principle, I do not visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately. because I have nothing to talk to him about. I'm considering stopping talking to him altogether, but that will reflect on my mother. Because this man is primitive and stupid. I wonder if I should shake his hand when we see each other and if I should talk to him. I don't think it's worth it at all. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). I don't usually visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately. because I have nothing to talk to him about. I'm considering stopping talking to him altogether, but that will reflect on my mother. Because this man is primitive and stupid. I wonder if I should shake his hand when we see each other and if I should talk to him. I don't think it's worth it at all. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). I don't usually visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). I don't usually visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). In principle, I do not visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately.