How Will I Get Used To My New Home?

   Start attending city events. At least here it is full of festivals, especially summer. On the 23rd, for example, there will be a medieval festival, every Sunday there is "People for the people", and in Kapana it is always full. Most of the people are very kind and responsive, so it's just "bull aylaka".

   Everyone drives things differently. But for me, for example, my home is the most important. I need to be comfortable, nice, clean and tidy. When I moved into the apartment, I was neither comfortable nor even hotel-like. It wasn't even like a village. A foreign one, as if I were in prison, seemed to me. On the other hand, I tidied up my room - a modest renovation, a few beautification procedures on the walls, and some interesting furniture, accessories. Gray! But what is a home without a pet? I sheltered a kitten and dealt with the owners - but when they saw what a chic reign in their home, they left me alone. I also found a dog. This has taken over some time in my life. While dealing with the "cattle", I became friends with some colleagues. I started going out with them. But when you go out with them, you meet other people. Along with the dog, I also met some people. And the vets regularly stop by guests to do their job, that I am one step away from them. And so, life was in order. My brother is a hyper social person, an artist - he can't drive like me for a year without social contacts. When he went to another city, he went and met every possible person. The shopkeepers next to him, the saleswoman at the market, the waitress at the nearby bistro, the florist on the corner, the musician in the subway ... Until he set foot in Sofia, he seemed to immediately meet some people. With some he was still friends, with others, of course, it was a temporary acquaintance. If you are not shy and introverted like me - just show a desire to communicate with people. Many of those in big cities are not used to, but they still rejoice like someone just wanting to chat with them without anything material. And if you are an introvert, but home is not the most important thing for you, you do not want to fill it with animals and you have no intention to lose a year of social life - attend cultural events. Even a simple cinema, theater, exhibition, book presentation, festivals. Go out often, don't listen to music and don't look at your phone. At least you will meet a man and things will work out.

   I was in a similar situation. Looking back, I see that I have compensated by eating (I have become obese). So I can tell you what NOT to do: don't indulge in indiscriminate eating, especially sweets. If you can't stand Plovdiv within eight months - go back to where you were better off. A change takes about six months to judge whether it is for the better or not. I put two more, because not everyone is the same length, so you can be more confident in your feeling. Give  a chance, but if it doesn't, don't bother.