Hello, I am writing a story here several times, some readers who follow the forum may know me. For those who are not acquainted, I will tell you briefly: I am a girl of 20 years, I fell in love and loved a man of my father's age, that even (for cover) and his friend. He deceived me, I fell in love, I left him, I wanted to go back to him, but I had already repulsed him with my childish behavior, I was looking for him, I called, nothing. We tried several times to get together, but things still didn't work out, again through my fault. The last time we talked (three months ago), the conversation didn't end well. He had given me some promises and he didn't keep them, so I told him that if he didn't keep his man's word, then he wasn't a real man (as he ALWAYS defines himself), he shut me up, very offended, and since then, neither I was looking for him, nor was he looking for me. After a year of humiliation and persecution, I was able to accept the fact that I had no future with this man, and that we would never have anything in common again. Well, this year, he had no contact with ours. We have a house abroad and a few days ago he came here with his new girlfriend on vacation, namely here "we fell in love last year. He knew I was here. He started going out with my mother and father in the evenings and questioning them. for me: what am I doing, how am I. These questions and actions of his irritate me a lot. How my father looks me in the eyes, given that he is * ball (with an apology, but that's exactly the word), was, humiliated, insulted "Isn't he uncomfortable? That they even go out to dinner. They've never been as close as they were this summer. In that first week he was here, I tried to avoid him, I didn't go out to dinner with them. ,, I didn't go to the beach and I distanced myself from him as much as I could, and he asked if he asked about me. He left the sea, I thought that by this time his contacts with my parents would stop. Yes but no. Today I call them again, when they have returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) as much as I could, and he asked if he asked about me. He left the sea, I thought that by this time his contacts with my parents would stop. Yes but no. Today I call them again, when they have returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together.
My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) as much as I could, and he asked if he asked about me. He left the sea, I thought that by this time his contacts with my parents would stop. Yes but no. Today I call them again, when they have returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) that by this time his contacts with my parents would have stopped. Yes but no. Today I call them again, when they have returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together.
My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) that by this time his contacts with my parents would have stopped. Yes but no.
Today I call them again, when they had returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him?
Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) should I congratulate him And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) should I congratulate him And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :)
1 syahralarez_new answered
I think you're doing the right thing by distancing yourself. There is no point in unnecessary dramas and telling your parents what happened, you can fight to eat this ex ... do not create problems for your father. In case of a chance meeting, greet him, but don't stop talking, and when he comes to you, just go down under some pretext. You will go to study soon and the problem will be solved by itself.