Hello! Our problem in general is this: about a month ago, our niece (15 years old) started dating a boy who we later found out was shaking quite often and was a peddler. Since they kept in touch, our niece changed her attitude towards us, towards her parents, became impudent, arrogant, started going out late at night and coming home in the small hours despite our prohibitions. From a mother of a drug addict, I learned that a change in behavior is the first sign that you can tell that a certain person is shaking. We have talked about this topic many times and she assures us that she has not tried drugs, but we do not believe her. We try in every way to separate her from the boy in question, but she is adamant. What to do, how to act ... how to separate them ... how do we know if she has used drugs Thank you in advance for the advice!
1 burningchick answered
She herself, if she doesn't understand her mistake, won't stop and I was just going out with a drug addict, but I realized and left him ... The more you forbid her, the more she'll be upset. A person will not stop until he hits his head on the wall several times and hurts. Success though