Well, if you have a boyfriend, it will be difficult without sex. If you don't have a boyfriend, there will be no one to refuse. Something like platonic love exists for a very small percentage of the male class, but as far as I understand your boyfriend is not one of them. If he truly loves you, he will wait, but let's not forget that boys have physiological needs and can't wait forever, especially if the boy is not a virgin. If he was a virgin, he wouldn't push so hard. How to refuse him? Well, just tell him the truth - that you don't want to and tell him what the reason is (you're not ready, you're in a cycle, etc.). To know that if you don't let him go for a long time, there is a chance that he will either dump you or do it with someone else, which I don't think you will enjoy. ~ Bloody victory ~
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Well, if you have a boyfriend, it will be difficult without sex. If you don't have a boyfriend, there will be no one to refuse. Something like platonic love exists for a very small percentage of the male class, but as far as I understand your boyfriend is not one of them. If he truly loves you, he will wait, but let's not forget that boys have physiological needs and can't wait forever, especially if the boy is not a virgin. If he was a virgin, he wouldn't push so hard. How to refuse him? Well, just tell him the truth - that you don't want to and tell him what the reason is (you're not ready, you're in a cycle, etc.). To know that if you don't let him go for a long time, there is a chance that he will either dump you or do it with someone else, which I don't think you will enjoy. ~ Bloody victory ~