We have had a happy relationship for 12 years. Child of 3 years. The problem is that since the child was born, the mother is more of a mother than a wife. We sleep in separate rooms. I separately, the mother and the child in another. We rarely have sex 1-2 times a month. No personal time for the two of us. At first I felt rejected, gradually the feeling gained - indifference. I go to work. My wife is unemployed. We have some financial problems. For my wife, the child comes first. He accuses me of not dealing enough with the child. We stopped eating together, each eating separately. Everyone does their own thing. The woman on the computer in social networks and a child. I at work, in the evening a movie, a computer, a child. My wife is constantly nervous and mutters and shouts that she has no time for her own life. There is no time for social contacts, you have been constantly at home with the child. We sometimes quarrel when we are both guilty and blame who was to blame for what. The quarrels end in silence. All this gained a kind of monotony and silence and indifference. How long are we going to drive it like this? How to warm the relationship?
1 iala.marbella answered
Try to take more care of where you are with her and so get closer. It helped me.