I write to ask people how they feel while communicating in front of acquaintances, strangers, in front of groups of people, because I myself feel uncomfortable and I am quite intelligent. I see that my communication is lame due to a number of delays and this somewhat hinders my development. I'm not an extrovert, I'm more self-sufficient. I think the problem originated in my childhood and school years. I know that there are many people with a similar problem, so to speak, and I would like to share if they have realized the problem, how they deal with this thing and how much it hinders their lives.
1 djsergiopr answered
The easiest way is to start asking - this is how you let the other party take over the conversation. For example - What do you do? - hence the questions "Yeah, sounds interesting, what exactly are you doing? .. then you can say what you do if the conversation stops., Cool bag, where is it from?, time and the obvious things are also a good topic for conversation with not very close ones, such as "Do you know what they are building on the corner? "," Will it rain? "," How are you, do you look tired? " etc.