How To Ignore The Discomfort?

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Hello, I very much hope that the moderators will publish my story because it contains important questions for me to which I am burning to know the answers! July was my first time with my ex-boyfriend. After that we did it 3 more times. There was blood on the second. Each time I felt discomfort even on the 3rd time. In the form of discomfort I mean fierce pain at penetration, which was the same as the first 2 times. From this pain I tighten like a tree and all excitement disappears as it was before the act. I would say that I am quite narrow in the sense that I have inserted 3 fingers at most and they are thin at the same time. I haven't had sex since July. Yesterday I bought a rubber dildo (typical penis shape), a vibrator (rabbit) and a G-spot vibrator (I know I'm early with this type but I like how it is curved and is a shaker for clitoral stimulation). I tried the dildo, I had penetrated the head slightly but felt the same fierce discomfort again. And it is this painful obstacle that kills my desire for sex at the moment. Apparently I need a lot more attempts before the discomfort disappears and I feel the pleasure. And it is on this issue that I need your advice on the following questions: Is it possible that my skin has healed in this period of time without sexual intercourse Regarding the disgustingly unpleasant discomfort, do I have to have sex with a boy or can toys solve my tightness problem? Is there any other way / ways besides penetration to stretch my vaginal muscles so that I am not so tight? Given that I've only done it 3 times, and to this day I feel this raging pain, is it dangerous to use sex toys? Am I early with them? Is it possible to get in trouble? Will I be able to enjoy them like the girls who weigh them, or have I spent my money on the wind? Is it possible that I am part of the girls who only after the tenth time felt the pleasure? I run with the following question before I walk, but it crossed my mind anyway, I will ask about it. When I penetrate with the dildo, for example, how can I know that I have reached the maximum depth of the vagina? (for example, I will feel a slight pain ... or ....) And how does it feel to penetrate to such a depth? Thanks in advance! or have I spent my money on the wind? Is it possible that I am part of the girls who only after the tenth time felt the pleasure? I run with the following question before I walk, but it crossed my mind anyway, I will ask about it. When I penetrate with the dildo, for example, how can I know that I have reached the maximum depth of the vagina? (for example, I will feel a slight pain ... or ....) And how does it feel to penetrate to such a depth? Thanks in advance! or have I spent my money on the wind? Is it possible that I am part of the girls who only after the tenth time felt the pleasure? I run with the following question before I walk, but it crossed my mind anyway, I will ask about it. When I penetrate with the dildo, for example, how can I know that I have reached the maximum depth of the vagina? (for example, I will feel a slight pain ... or ....) And how does it feel to penetrate to such a depth? Thanks in advance!

Last Updated
November 09, 2020
Author:
oldcomer2

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