How To Ignore The Discomfort?

   The problem with you is more on a mental basis and over time you will overcome it. You just have to find a suitable partner who is not in a hurry with the initial penetration, but does it gradually. I mean to penetrate a little, to stop, to start playing with your clit with your fingers. Then come in a little more, not stopping to touch you with his fingers, down there. Thus, with you, the arousal will gradually prevail and the muscles of the vagina will gradually relax and then comes the fun. The most comfortable position for this is for you to lie across the bed and for the boy to stand up straight so that his hands are free. I am sure of success, as long as you do not pull and jump at every pressure, and the boy must not be in a hurry and refrain from emptying. The important thing is to find a suitable man to do it with. If I am not mistaken, this muscle tightening has some name (vaginismus, I think it was), but I'm not a gynecologist and I'm not sure. I had such a girlfriend and what I am writing is from my practice with her, with the difference that you can't even penetrate a centime with her at first. But for almost a month, the mental problem disappeared and everything was fine. GOOD LUCK

   First read about people with similar problems on the net in English too. Find a suitable doctor to consult. I watched such a story on TLS TV. channel. You will surely find it somewhere on the net. The girl had the same problem, they were Muslims in the United States, a wonderful wedding, a honeymoon ... they found a specialist and she started therapy, eventually things got better and she was finally pregnant. The problem is more psychological, but consulting the right doctor, not just gynecology, comes first. Ask about your problem in a medical organization, association of gynecologists .... there are a lot of doctors who have had a connection, can face a similar problem and refer you.

   From the author to numbers 2 and 3 - you did not mention anything about sex toys, that is, the questions I asked related to them. Do I really have to practice with a boy? Because most guys like the fact that I'm not as experienced would immediately take advantage, like my ex who ended up in me without my permission, but luckily the act was with a condom, but that's because he was still so scared of me. Because of this incident, if at all possible, I will be very happy if the toys can do the job. And do you think I'm definitely a gynecologist? Otherwise, should I continue to have fun with sex toys? I'm sorry how I penetrate only 3 cm at most, and if I push even harder, then dawn begins. There are days when I burst out watching tumblr gifs as well as porn and watching women die for fun and do it freely, and I'm A, B.

   4. Keep the wisdom to yourself, others need compassion! Poor thing, does it hurt a lot? The skin, if it could heal, would be even fuller with carpets. In fact, it has no time to heal at all. Who will leave her? ;)

   By number 4 by the author, I'm not a duck carpet lost at 21 I lost my virginity. You know where to go yesterday's cockroach: D

   From the author's supplement for number 4, judging people by a story, I would be very ashamed of my own skin. What kind of unearthly surplus can I not understand ?! : D Go proud of your garbage personality somewhere else, don't waste the time of people who want advice, dust with your dust!

   Author, are you sure that the withers are not from cystitis? So, as you describe it, it reminds me of me when it literally burned like smeared with hot peppers from below. I was treated with antibiotics for 2 weeks. I don't care if it's from meaningless sex with a man or a dildo. I am also very narrow, probably because of genes, but also because of sports and it happened that I was in pain during sex, but not this burning pain, but there was piercing and abrasion, because of the tightness. See a doctor again.

   Author, are you sure you don't have fungus? I was like you, I was in a lot of pain, but it turned out that I had fungus and cars. Go to the doctor, it may be inflammation.

   Author, don't cut your hair! It won't pass you by, especially if you're a tolerable boyfriend. So: 1. Is the boy's penis clean? 2. As I wrote in a comment in a female cycle there are several stages: a) beginning to the 3rd - 5th day - red guests; b) 3rd, 5th day to 9th day you can do it as much as you want and inside and out there is no problem; c) The 11th to the 13th day is usually your ovulation. you become very active, you fuck and you really want to be put inside. then you can have a child; d) 14th to 16th - 18th day of the post-ovulatory period - you can get pregnant, you may not get pregnant ... Don't take risks inside if you don't want a child. e) After the post-ovulatory period until the end do whatever you want - you will not have a child; Keep in mind the following: the sperm is suitable for fertilization 3-4 days (rarely 5), and the egg - about 4-6 days, but only in the first 3 can it nest in the uterus - otherwise it becomes an ectopic pregnancy. Everything else they tell you is blah blah. You have to be compatible with the man who wants to fertilize you to have a healthy baby. The other thing you need to be prepared for is food and childbirth. Childbirth through injections, operations, pain relief is stupidity. The best thing for a kid is to be born with ... excitement. As with sexual intercourse, when you are aroused, you can take on many penises, so here - when aroused, you can have a very light independent birth. The most comfortable maternity position is on 4 legs, not squatting on a donkey. I hope I was useful to you! what you need to be prepared for is food and childbirth. Childbirth through injections, operations, pain relief is stupidity. The best thing for a kid is to be born with ... excitement. As with sexual intercourse, when you get aroused, you can take a lot of penises, so here - when aroused, you can have a very light independent birth. The most comfortable maternity position is on 4 legs, not squatting on a donkey. I hope I was useful to you! what you need to be prepared for is food and childbirth. Childbirth through injections, operations, pain relief is stupidity. The best thing for a kid is to be born with ... excitement. As with sexual intercourse, when you get aroused, you can take a lot of penises, so here - when aroused, you can have a very light independent birth. The most comfortable maternity position is on 4 legs, not squatting on a donkey. I hope I was useful to you!

   Up to number 14, by the author, your comment contains 80% complete nonsense that I was not interested in in my story !! Brandy time and useful tips do not go hand in hand! Where exactly in my story have I asked about birth methods ?? 1. Be helpful to others with your comment! This seems to be in another language for you, sir?