How To Hint To My Husband To Brush His Teeth Regularly

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Hi, it's probably going to be a weird story, with an even weirder question, but that's the way it is. My husband and I have been together for 6 years and he flatly refuses to brush his teeth. He said that they were fine, one chewing gum was enough for him and he was ready, at one time people didn't have toothpaste and didn't brush their teeth, they had healthier teeth, of course I don't agree with that. In my opinion, this thinking is completely windy. We have a child to teach him. Since there are hygiene products why not use them. I bought him a brush, a nice paste for BGN 10. Well, there is no option to make it. I don't want to tell him that when he talks he smells, not when he gets close, but from afar, even because he will be offended, I know, I tell him, for example, brush your teeth or start brushing them already, because they are terribly yellow, accumulated and black. He is still a smoker. He washes them once and for all. I can't follow him and do this in the morning and in the evening, to deal with his hygiene. And it really smells awful, we go out with friends, acquaintances, he talks to them, and his teeth in the light are just shocking, I see how people are staring there and see that really these teeth are not washed. We don't even have any contact with each other anymore, neither intimate nor any, I can't kiss or lie down next to such a person. It literally smells like a toilet. I'm sorry to put it this way, but I'm already wondering what to do. While I'm the exact opposite of this, I have such a need to brush my teeth and hygiene in general that I can't go out without doing it, I don't feel comfortable. On top of that, he told me that he had never brushed his teeth since he was a child, and now I'm sitting and whining about how I didn't notice it when we met. Maybe it didn't feel that way. I don't know what's going on, we're talking about a 26-year-old man. Please give advice or opinion and without unnecessary negative comments, if I write here, then I have judged why. Thanks!

Last Updated
August 15, 2020
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astaririri

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