Just try harder and get better at school than they do. Get as high scores as you can from them. And then watch them writhe with malice and envy. If you think that when you grow up at work it will be something else - you are wrong. I'm a man of 35 and it's the same with me. I do not come into conflict with anyone, relationships only at the official level and no personal one, diligence at work, better results and higher pay ... Well, then there is no greater pleasure than to see their greedy close faces and shallow flashing envious eyes as they cast sparkling glances full of hatred for me. I have become so dexterous and skillful that I have set the whole "team" against myself without a single insult or filth being uttered. I take revenge intelligently, with thought, tact, courage, even without a word being said. I'm just trying to outdo them. Well, there is no such pleasure then in contemplating them.
Post them on social media or spread some nasty rumors. Make a joke with someone who annoyed you the most.
You stop going to school and they will move you to another school, otherwise, you will tolerate them until the 12th grade and then you will be damaged, like me, and you will hate people.
If you can enroll in some martial arts. There is no one more naughty than this girl to draw 1 fight per boy
If you want to be professional, learn and apply the strategies of professionals.
Three books:
1. Sun Tzu: "The Art of War"
2. Robert Green: "48 Laws of Power"
(3.) Niccolo Machiavelli: The Prince (Be careful with this one!)
God, forgive me! Maybe I created a monster or blessed me because I helped Angel!
There is nothing better than ignoring them, no matter how difficult it is. To study hard and graduate with good grades, to study at university something to make good money, such as dentistry, programming, etc.
As you learn and develop. School is over and you may never see these people again. Everyone is stuck somewhere, who works, who studies in another city and so the years go by. No sense in telling you now - I don't wanna ruin the suprise. After graduating, I hardly noticed my classmates. It's just that everyone starts their own life and so on. Some will have achieved something, others have not. Make sure you're okay.
I realize that there is no point in dealing with them, I have goals that I follow, unlike them. They are quite stupid and immature, they do not behave in a way that suits their age. I have self-confidence and I don't care much who talks about me. I ignore them for years, but it doesn't help. I thought that through this ignorance I have become a rag. They perceive me as a victim. So I decided that I will no longer be the garbage that everyone crushes and I will answer them, in this way I will protect my dignity. Only the boys started to physically rape me just because I called, I did not say any insult. They decided that I have no right to vote. I am thinking of moving. I am already starting. to talk to my father, he will move me to a Spanish high school, the life and health I want.
Thanks for the advice.
You will meet such bastards not only at school, but also at work ... and on the street ... and in the store, on public transport - everywhere!
Since, the Lord has gathered the worthy ones, here on the Earth is left the chaff, which satisfactorily fills the positions of hell. And the Earth
I haven't read, but I have an answer:
By becoming the best version of yourself.
See, for physical violence, probation is given, as well as fines. Go to the police and say they are beating and threatening.
Author, I am also harassed, now I will soon be 27 years old, not only have I been bullied at school, but I am also bullied at work and mocked for being fat. How old are you? if you are 14-16 then you are probably 8-10 grade and you have had a hard time with things. At your age, my classmates beat me and I didn't dare touch one.
My advice is not to do it. Revenge is childish.
Just be realistic. You hardly told your parents about it. It would be hard to believe that a parent would make their child go to school in such circumstances. Show them what you wrote. Be strong and stay positive.
Pour him a glass of a horse dose of Viagra and a laxative!
Well done, you don't want to be crushed! Those who tell you to ignore things are cowards, that's just our mentality. But the truth is that every self-respecting person will do something about it!
For someone older if you read, imagine it this way - your colleague takes the money from his wallet. Will you ignore it? They take down your girlfriend. Will you ignore?
The girl is treated like a rag. Should she ignore?
My advice is - think creatively. You sound like 7-8 grade to me, I guess there are bigger ones than you. Meet the older ones, these "bad boys". For example, talk to them in the big break and tell them that you will return the favor by buying them cigarettes, for example, in exchange for intimidating these drummers. You will see that they will not touch you again.
One more thing I want to say author, not guided by these stupid comments. They read to me Lao Tzu Mzu Nzu and so on. These are people who are passive-aggressive, because in the moments when they had to be scared and defend themselves, they were silent. They certainly kept the malice in themselves and probably still do, but believe me - it's awful.
Plus, how can you not waste your nerves on them after they stretch them every day. Something I do not understand the logic of the above comments ...
DO NOT VENGEANCE! Two evils do not do good! What people say about you, you do not get into work! Let them talk as they want! First you have to stop your attitude towards people by calling them stupid, envious and so on. People are different! Only from the way you write I can understand that you are not a flower to smell. And there is nothing wrong with that! No one is perfect! Why instead of thinking how to "ruin their lives", do not try to be more I know it sounds cliché, but if you think you're better than them, at least act like one!
One by one. That's how you perceive them as a crowd. There is no way to get revenge on a crowd. Divide them, and start them one by one. Look at their addresses in the diary, walk and see who lives where, what he messes with, where he walks, where his weak spot is. You can always blow a brick in the dark behind his head. The other luck will come to him. And even if you enroll in any karate club, after 1, 2 months of training, tell the boys from the club why you train and you will enjoy the funniest beatings in your life - those of your tormentors.
If you have enough money, you can order them all to beat and kill them. But my advice is only to beat them so that they can take away their fear and learn what you are feeling and feel your pain.
To # 17: if you are in my presence, you will not accept me as "passive-aggressive", but rather assertive. And it's not "Tao De Jing", but "The Art of War", my boy / girl.
Do not ask the old man, but ask the sufferer. I travel the world and thanks to these military strategies I am still alive. The battle is won first in the mind and then indeed.
Of course, BJJ and Krav Maga help a lot.
Thank you for the comment, though.
... and here is the logic (# 17th): if you hit someone in the head without knowing that there is e.g. brain aneurysm and die, the result is a grave for one and a prison for another. Part of my training is getting acquainted with the legal provisions for the cases when it is NECESSARY to use physical violence and weapons to protect yourself or someone else. I spend most of my time in a country where the population has the right to own firearms and I've visited federal prisons and no, I don't want to be on the other side of the wall. Believe me, the mastery is to win the battle, WITHOUT entering it at all, and this is achieved with a good and feasible strategy. There are other books in English, but they are already entering the dark side (Black Science), and my desire is to keep (the author) Betty from the side of the Light.
Be healthy!
and more: Betty, body language is decisive when the malefactor decides whether you are a potential victim or not. This is embedded deep in our instincts; whether on the street or at work, your posture and body position determine others' perceptions of you.
Example: the transformation (before and after) of the main characters in films such as Office Space (1999), Stardust (2007), Elusive (Wanted - 2008). Study these movies and pay special attention to what makes the characters different.
If you can, start training BJJ (Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu); it uses leverage and you can defeat an opponent stronger than you, but you have to isolate it, through my above tips to learn strategies, because in front of a large opponent you have no chance with any system of self-defense.
But as I have already written, the pinnacle of military prowess is to win without going into battle. This is achieved not by escalating the situation, but by introducing hesitation and/or fear into the opponent's brain. If you show fear, you are lost!
Up to 22, 23, 24 (honestly, one menu is enough ...)
If I need a security guard, I'll call you ... But as a motivator and so on, you're bare water.
Up to 25 (author?): I understand I wanted to help. I'm sorry to waste my words on you, but it may be good for someone else.
However, I wish you success in your endeavors.
I'm number 16 and 17. The girl needs a way to deal with the problem, no time to read books and make sense of the philosophy of life. She wants to be left alone, so I said:
- To seek help from older people, to do them a favor or to repay them in some way, to make a deal ostensibly to protect it. Whether he will buy them cigarettes or something else, I do not know (of course without sexual things).
That way they won't hang her anymore. If he complains to his parents, what will happen? Nothing. If he complains to teachers? Nothing. If she is silent and "don't waste your nerves" she will be crushed.
I agree that these books are very good, but this is a complete philosophy that there is no time for at the moment.
Study, take a trade, save money. Pay the thugs. It's easy.
The sponsors of the beatings are usually small crushed people. The performers make a living from this, the orders go, their fame spreads, the clientele grows. To their victims, it comes like thunder from a clear sky, but they too can think and shrink their fins, the jungle we are the stronger eats the weaker.
Looking at how you responded in comment number 25, I'm not at all surprised that they beat. Chances are your spittoon knows a lot. You came here to roar for advice. The person answers you - you may not like it, but you are "bare water". If you can't handle it, you're bare water. You have malice. If there was an approach, there would be no need for this outpouring.
Move to another school.
And he doesn't care about your stupid classmates - there is still life to crush them, crush them. They will get it, even if it is not from you
You don't bother to take revenge on them ... God knows your job!
Hello lovely girl!
It's like reading for myself. Exactly the same situation. My girlfriend and I are harassed daily by our classmates, many of whom think they are superior to God. These creatures (I don't call them human because it's not a human attitude to me) are so disgusting that several times when I saw them outside in the break, I vomited at their feet.
Then there was a class war, because I smeared their precious branded shoes and clever faces. I was about to be expelled, but my principal is a grandmother, and the math teacher and my brother's wife (my daughter-in-law) got away with it. The Bulgarian teacher is my uncle, but he is very strict and then he threw such a fight at me in front of the class, so I became a laughing stock.
The humiliation was complete, so complete that I laughed at the stress in class, and physically fainted, and then I scratched my gut, and then I spat blood. I started drinking, bringing vodka to school just to please them. My uncle beat me from a fight again, I vomited on the floor in the toilets, because I was in a cycle then, and because the toilet was flooded, I swam in a river of blood and feces.
YOU CAN'T GET RID OF BULLYING. JUST DRIVE LIKE ME AND SO MUCH!
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