Hello, Since I have no one to share with and I know that I have to deal with the consequences myself, I just want to "pour out" my soul here ... A few months ago I met a girl, there was a spark and we got together. immediately. At first she asked me to hide our relationship from her friend, and since I am generous and naive, I agreed. At first I thought it was because she was afraid she might look like she was in a hurry (it was, too, on my part), but it was actually that he had feelings for her and didn't want to lose the man. to himself. Dumb, but yes, if you were a true friend of hers, he would still stay with her. I later found out that they had a relationship and apparently his feelings remained. She also hid our relationship from her parents for the same reason that she was in no hurry. At the same time, she was dating other guys (supposedly not doing anything, friendly), but my problem is that she didn't mention me to any of them, and that she was in a relationship. We discussed this with her, she told me that she did not cheat on me, etc. Subsequently, she was jealous of the slightest contact with a girl I have, even if it is just for work / study. They ruined my friendship with a very close person because he was jealous of his girlfriends, and that they "watched" me constantly while I was with her. So, after my friendship broke down, I realized from her that it was all because of these two of his girlfriends, and that they liked me and were intentional. Because my boyfriend's boyfriend was there and "heard" that they were talking about us and how we were in a relationship, that we were hiding from him and I don't know what else (his words}. Alas, I saw my relative and he told me their perspective: They had gathered to see each other and the person in question from whom we were hiding had appeared there. He started talking about how my boyfriend was actually {obviously his? ) were together, and how I came out of nowhere all of a sudden and didn't know why I was revolving around her all the time. I was an obstacle to them, etc. I broke up with her and reunited (which I am very sorry about). And right now I'm understanding how they actually walk (which I'm not sure I don't know who to trust anymore). I'm paranoid, I don't trust anyone, after hearing their perspective on the situation, my feelings died instantly and I know that even though we had an argument with this man, he wouldn't lie to me. I want to part with her, I don't trust her either.
I don't feel good emotionally and mentally anymore, I'm generally a hell of a patient person, but I can't take it anymore. I want to end all relationships with all of them and rest from these lies, I don't know what it is anymore. I apologize for the long text, I guess everything is quite confusing, but I myself no longer know what is happening. I hope someone ds took the trouble to read this, because I want to hear opinions from someone completely unknown. I have already decided that this girl should not be in my life, it's just that at the moment she has a very difficult period with her studies, she is stuck to the throat and if I break up with her again she will ruin herself. Despite everything, I still think about it and get angry. Thank you for your attention... I hope someone ds took the trouble to read this, because I want to hear opinions from someone completely unknown. I have already decided that this girl should not be in my life, it's just that at the moment she has a very difficult period with her studies, she is stuck to the throat and if I break up with her again she will ruin herself.
Despite everything, I still think about it and get angry. Thank you for your attention... I hope someone ds took the trouble to read this, because I want to hear opinions from someone completely unknown. I have already decided that this girl should not be in my life, it's just that at the moment she has a very difficult period with her studies, she is stuck to the throat and if I break up with her again she will ruin herself. Despite everything, I still think about it and get angry. Thank you for your attention...
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I read your story. Twice to the end, the third only to the half. Almost nothing became clear to me, I say it frankly and without detours. You left in a hurry, hiding from her friend and her relatives. It turns out that this friend had feelings for her, because they had obviously been doing something before. Then yours quarrels with your loved one because he is jealous of his girlfriends who watched you. It turns out that she was spinning you and someone else, probably the first one, her friend from whom she hid your relationship. Anyway ... I wanted more. What do I see from this story? You're caught up with someone who spins you all and creates huge intrigues. In your relationship, supposedly secrets, another 100 people are involved and it turns out that everyone has something in common with her. Hey, Author, you don't have a boyfriend, you have a chicken. You have no connection, you have a game on a broken phone. Who told whom, but what turned out to be who thought what ...!? That's enough for you. Either you're with someone and you're just the two of you, or you're not. In your case, you are with a girl, but it turns out that every second one interferes with you and participates in a greater intrigue. You don't like dramas, you don't like lies and nonsense. Don't worry about it collapsing if you dump it. But she doesn't think so, she has another boyfriend, it will reassure her that you dumped her. If you are not 15 years old, then your whole story is completely inadequate and not even worth thinking about. Aren't you the main character in the telenovela? Tighten it up and stop wasting your time with children's stories, manipulators and outright liars. you don't care about lies and nonsense. Don't worry about it collapsing if you dump it. But she doesn't think so, she has another boyfriend, it will reassure her that you dumped her. If you are not 15 years old, then your whole story is completely inadequate and not even worth thinking about. Aren't you the main character in the telenovela? Tighten it up and stop wasting your time with children's stories, manipulators and outright liars. you don't care about lies and nonsense. Don't worry about it collapsing if you dump it. But she doesn't think so, she has another boyfriend, it will reassure her that you dumped her. If you are not 15 years old, then your whole story is completely inadequate and not even worth thinking about. Aren't you the main character in the telenovela? Tighten it up and stop wasting your time with children's stories, manipulators and outright liars.