How do I stop looking for it In short: We have known each other for 10 years. 5 of them I was happy, feeling his love and care. The other 5 are soaked in my tears for him, the feeling of deception, the false words that he loves me. For 4 years he masterfully avoided asking me what I was to him. I have known for half a year that there is another. I tried to forget it, I cried my tears, I ruined my health. Life has lost its color. I started calling him again sometimes. Only in his office because he changed his phone number. He was nice to me, we laugh, the communication was interesting and intelligent, but he doesn't give me his phone number? I understand perfectly well that I am completely stupid and my dignity has disappeared somewhere. After each meeting, I ruin myself and look for him again. Today I found out that he dumped the other one, but you liked the new one last month. Hurry to marry a second time, that passes 50. And I'm married (another question whether happily) and I'm not getting married to him and he doesn't want me. How can I be so blinded and keep looking for love from him? Shouldn't I be treated for such an addiction? How do I erase it from my life?
1 squirrelygirl2020 answered
"And I'm married (another question whether happy)" From this line of yours and from the point of view of a boy with a lot of experience in the field of soap operas in real life I can tell you directly WHY DOESN'T HE WANT YOU: If he knows that you you are married, but not happy, so you think that you are not serious and that if you go with him, in time you will consider this relationship frivolous, because, I hope it does not sound conservative - marriage is something SERIOUS, you can not swear at someone in fidelity, and after a while to hesitate and want another. I'm just telling you directly why he doesn't want you from a man's point of view. Men do not like to feel like FAVORITES.