How To Find A Mistress

   I don't think you'll ever find an unpaid mistress, I'm sorry. The problem with you is that you can't offer anything - you don't even want to offer the illusion of a possible love, a possible future - in short, you're not even a liar. You just want sex, and you find everything else with your wife in a relationship where she is the leading party and you are the addict. That's why people like you just pay, because everyone wants something for themselves - if you can't offer at least the illusion of more, you'll have to pay. What do I think of you and your wife? She just wears her pants home and sets things right. The fact that you haven't even found the courage to seek your rights for three years speaks volumes about you and you as a couple. Whatever your wife says, that's it - she wants help in the household, caching, rubbing, ironing. I am convinced that in other things it is the same - whatever SHE says, it is. You are a man under a slipper who is afraid to separate, but he will not separate because he needs this slipper. It's like a kind of Stockholm syndrome, and men like you don't get divorced unless their wife dumps them. That's why you have nothing to offer a mistress. I don't believe in sex in 3 years, in flirting too - just start giving the money for the maid to a prostitute or "sponsorship", but without that no normal woman would go with you - why should she? What can you give but a bare penis out of shape? Every homeless person and drunkard can give this to a woman in 15 minutes, and even the ugliest can go to a disco once and find a "pin". Men who have lovers are men of radiance, men of hot feelings, or at least good liars, able to flirt and offer love or the illusion of such. Men like you are clients of the erotic industry. Women like your wife have survived bingo - they have caught a fool who will lick their asses for the rest of their lives, they have taken a child out of the fool and caught him by the balls. Even in ancient times, such couples are easy to see - the man is hunched over, old from work, and the woman is quite alive, well-preserved and lives her life, she even has a lover for decades and so on. It is not even a drama, but a banal condition, so common that it is no longer interesting, and whoever thinks that since he cannot fix his own wife, he has to fix other people's wives, is cruelly mistaken. Think about what a normal man would do if his wife didn't let him go for 3 years and even told him to find a mistress? A normal man would just leave and at first would not tolerate such an attitude anyway. With your wife you have no love, affection, passion, but most importantly - she has no respect for you as a husband and you are to put it mildly annoying even, a necessary evil - who stands in such circumstances is such a jelly that no woman would voluntarily she became his mistress, unless she cashed in on such a relationship.

   Wow! You are a unique husband !! I would give everything and my husband would be like that !! But your problem is serious ... Definitely something needs to be done about it, but infidelity is not an option in my opinion. No man who loves his wife (no matter how dry) would cheat! This is a fact!!! Precisely because you give her what she needs, she doesn't give you what you need ... The easiest thing is to stop being the perfect man and live your life. She will definitely notice the difference in your behavior - nepukism, the fact that you stopped taking care of the house, that you go out to drink with friends ... Then the moment will come when she will ask you what is happening to you and then it is time in which you have to blackmail her! This is the only way it will happen ... Show her that you will not do what she wants if she does not do what you want;)

   The opinion of number 2 is something like a joke to the Author and a guide for the male monk or just the writings of a woman who wants but has failed to train her husband as the Author's wife has succeeded - and her advice is female - to blackmail, to stop taking care of the house and nonsense - it's best to go and castrate, because that would be both the most convenient for his wife, and the balls will no longer bother him and it's over

   And you haven't gotten to the cause, you don't know why he doesn't want you anymore? It wasn't like that before she got pregnant. How did this child become, was it an accident, did you insist, and did she accept it under your pressure? If so, no wonder it affected her in this way. You point out the moment of the pregnancy, it has changed since then, that's why I think that if she didn't get pregnant of her own free will, it is quite possible that what happens will happen. Loss of confidence, a sense of "fucking", from there everything else is just the domino effect. You know that you do not state a reason, either because you are not really interested and have not tried to understand, or you know, but you do not want to take responsibility, thinking that you will cover up the situation with gifts. Look, I'm not attacking you, I'm just trying to direct you to find and acknowledge the cause, otherwise your marriage is about to fall apart. To send you to another ... it just means that you lost her as a woman. The important step in such a situation is to loudly admit your mistake. Whatever it is, you have it. From there, everything is a matter of conversation, time, patience. If she had a good job, a career that was interrupted, in general a life that she liked before she became a mother, let her renew it with your help. If you have the opportunity for a helper, let her be on a full day, so that your wife feels free, whatever she decides. I have observed similar couples in which one "ties" the other with a child ... they do not end well. It is easy for the mistress to catch a student, pay for the apartment and from time to time some lunch / dinner accompanied by a plush toy and she will even believe that she is in love. It will caress your self-confidence and sting your buttocks. But you will finally lose any opportunity to restart with your wife. Think carefully about whether it is better for the "little one" to develop before acknowledging the problem.

   although quite rudely, H1 told you how things are ... your wife just looked for someone to beat her all her life, she made a child to tie you up until you die and now she doesn't sleep at all how you'll be fine ... aside from your problem, she's either asexual or she's found someone she's happy with a long time ago, and you're just her piggy bank. think about this as well. and good luck! because you look like a very decent man to me ...

   So the younger sets, when we read such and such, how can we not want to run away from the idea of ​​family life like the devil from incense? Specifically, were you convinced that this woman wanted to start a family with you because she considered you a Number One man, or was it just that she was more of an "um, I'm better than you" attitude? And you, did you want her hard enough, or was she just "good" .. Well, I don't know if you can find a mistress, but why not a sex friend? You just have to train to maintain your body and be clean and a woman will always respond in a situation similar to yours. For example, a peer bored by your husband would be perfect. Just start going out once a week, for example, but no more that you still have children - they are the most important.

   I'm against infidelity at first, but if your wife doesn't mind, it may be a solution, at least temporarily. In order for your wife to say these words to you, apparently your relationship is completely exhausted. From now on, think about whether you just need a mistress or just a new true love. But think about your child, too. If it finds out that you are cheating, won't it hate you and you will come out the bad guy and the culprit for the whole misunderstanding at home. And your wife will be the martyr, harassed by the nasty father. I think he will understand you much better if you just split up and everyone is looking for happiness individually. I know it's not an easy decision, but think about the child if it's not the least evil. Leave yourself, you don't matter. Otherwise, I don't think it will be a big problem to find a mistress. There are such dissatisfied women in your situation under and over the road, shoveling them. I don't think you have to be an uncle's coin or lie to her. I personally know such people. Just look around your acquaintances, you will easily recognize such women. It is evident in behavior, looks, everything. Well, it won't be Miss World, but ... You really have to be an uncle for money. Even many women prefer to be married subconsciously for a number of reasons, which I will not go into. Women will deny this, but I repeat - this is unconscious behavior. They act more emotionally than rationally. Use this as a trump card to find one if you think it is a solution to the problem. But remember - when it comes to infidelity, the days until divorce are numbered. Or at best, you'll just live as roommates (as you do now, by the way). Just look around your acquaintances, you will easily recognize such women. It is evident in behavior, looks, everything. Well, it won't be Miss World, but ... You really have to be an uncle for money. Even many women prefer to be married subconsciously for a number of reasons, which I will not go into. Women will deny this, but I repeat - this is unconscious behavior. They act more emotionally than rationally. Use this as a trump card to find one if you think it is a solution to the problem. But remember - when it comes to infidelity, the days until divorce are numbered. Or at best, you'll live simply as roommates (as you do now, by the way). Just look around your acquaintances, you will easily recognize such women. It is evident in behavior, looks, everything. Well, it won't be Miss World, but ... You really have to be an uncle for money. Even many women prefer to be married subconsciously for a number of reasons, which I will not go into. Women will deny this, but I repeat - this is unconscious behavior. They act more emotionally than rationally. Use this as a trump card to find one if you think it is a solution to the problem. But remember - when it comes to infidelity, the days until divorce are numbered. Or at best, you'll just live as roommates (as you do now, by the way). Even many women prefer to be married subconsciously for a number of reasons, which I will not go into. Women will deny this, but I repeat - this is unconscious behavior. They act more emotionally than rationally. Use this as a trump card to find one if you think it is a solution to the problem. But remember - when it comes to infidelity, the days until divorce are numbered. Or at best, you'll live simply as roommates (as you do now, by the way). Even many women prefer to be married subconsciously for a number of reasons, which I will not go into. Women will deny this, but I repeat - this is unconscious behavior. They act more emotionally than rationally. Use this as a trump card to find one if you think it is a solution to the problem. But remember - when it comes to infidelity, the days until divorce are numbered. Or at best, you'll live simply as roommates (as you do now, by the way). But remember - when it comes to infidelity, the days until divorce are numbered. Or at best, you'll just live as roommates (as you do now, by the way). But remember - when it comes to infidelity, the days until divorce are numbered. Or at best, you'll just live as roommates (as you do now, by the way).

   It's something like this with us, only I gave birth and there's no sex for me, he still doesn't want to be tired, he worked, and I opened my mouth all day, come on, mom, come on, mom, there's nothing big, you'll grow up, etc., but I'm tired and I found what I was looking for.

   4 has written great nonsense, the students usually have rich parents, you died to pay for the accommodation, and they are beautiful and young and educated and they did not die for mold like the author.

   -What is a husband? - A man who helps his wife in the difficulties she would not have encountered if she had not taken him for a husband ...

   There are thousands of women like you - harassed by their husbands and not pollinated for years. It will not be difficult for you to find it at all. It will be much harder for you to get rid of one when you get bored.

   Just look around and you will easily find a mistress. I wish you success!

   Okay, did you try to figure out the reason why he refused you? You have changed your attitude towards her - you show her that you want her, you buy her things, but as you can see, this has not improved things. This means that your wife's reluctance to have sex is not so much tied to your attitude. They thought more deeply about the reasons - whether the birth was natural or a cesarean section, whether she had to have stitches or experienced some strong stress and was afraid that she would get pregnant again and therefore not want to . I go back to natural childbirth - whether there is some "cosmetic" reason or a healthy one to refuse. My thought is that you have set out to change yourself, and the problem may not be in you at all, but may be related to some mental trauma of your wife. Talk to her about these issues and try to understand the reason. You somehow made this child.

   He fixes his family and then looks for another. When you got married, you didn't sleep.

   Kakeo makes a man to receive sex gifts, flowers, even helps with housework hahahahaha will fall off the chair

   To number one, as sung in a song by Metallica - sad but true. I can say that I am almost in the situation of the gentleman. The difference is that I somehow manage to find women for sex. I call them so because the term mistress has a different meaning to me. However, I can't call it a success, because the women I come across are selfish consumers. As good as it was with them, they only give some sex, some because they take theirs and run away. In the end you feel fucked, and finally there comes a moment when either they want only for themselves, or the moment they want to have sex with you, and you are hindered and not available, they dump, and go to another. From the whole situation you feel so fucked up by all the women that you feel like howling like a dog. After all, my advice is - knock, pay and run.

   From n 1 to n. 17 - whatever called, called. I don't see why you are dissatisfied - you first go around the world as a married man looking for women to crawl your problems and then when you come across women like yourself you are dissatisfied. What do you really want? A woman wasting her time so you can save your stupid marriage? Every woman is looking for love on her own, she wants to start a family and you, being able to offer a dick, are not surprised that you also get only one sexual organ. Just get a divorce and live honestly to date honest women.

   From number 17 to number 1. I guess a woman without sexual problems and needs and you are here only to analyze and criticize, and this brings you some pleasure. I imagine you as a 120-30 kg aunt, with twice as much ego, which you scratch by criticizing the other participants in the discussion. Not that I wouldn't enjoy talking face-to-face about things in life, but like I said, I have an awful lot of ego between the lines, and that will be a reason to remain anonymous. Despite what was written to me and the reproach that I could only offer one naked cock, thank you for answering. However, come to think of it, what other capacity do you have besides a perhaps smelly vulva that hasn't felt live meat in a long time? If you really are such a connoisseur of true feelings, great love and the prince on a white horse, then your place is not here.

   Author, women, even when they grow up, love to play with dolls. However, they dress him in sweet tales like love and family. Well, you made a doll for your wife, and you're the second doll, congratulations! He plays well with both. Get out of there instantly! Such insolent lizards as her and n. 1 and dick do not deserve!

   It will hardly be a problem for you to find something to fuck. However, you may need to first clarify with your wife why she does not want any sex with you. Didn't she want it before the child? Does he not want sex in general or does he not want sex with you specifically? I am a woman, but with us things were reversed. After the birth of the child, I received almost no attention. Almost 3 painful years have passed, during which I wondered what was wrong with me (for those of you who will say - you have expanded :) - no, it's not that, I myself wanted and gave birth to a section for this reason). I look more than decent and take care of myself, I train, I haven't gained weight, etc. The problem turned out to be with him, not with me. She never told me exactly what she was, but I think she perceived me more or even just as the mother of her child, not as a mistress. To this day, I am the initiator most of the time. Sometimes it annoys me, but I don't want to ruin my family. I suppose that at some point I would go abroad!

   I have no words .... The man has a problem. And various idiots here explain to him ... that there is a problem. Which should be useful to him !? And he had to understand what it was, the problem. Or they understood the problem just by reading what he wrote. All this is NOT on topic. He wants a mistress. And now to the author. When you want it, start looking for it. First of all, you tell your wife to vacate your bedroom. Where there is a place for sex. Or you move to another room. And ... you're looking. You see, there are women in your position here too. Not prostitutes, but respectable women who want sex. Not to divorce. They just want sex. But you are abroad .... So look there, place ads. If you want a Bulgarian woman, you will surely find her and she will come straight to you :) But besides sex you will have to offer her everything else there. Which doesn't seem to be an option. But the main thing is this - if he doesn't want your wife, don't force her. But she doesn't have to bother you if you want to, right :) It's like calling a housekeeper, to cancel her housework :) :)

   they died to become his lovers, to stay with his wife, he supported her, who would be attached to him

   they died to become his lovers, to stay with his wife, he supported her, who would be attached to him

   My warmest apologies, author, but you're not a fucker. From the very title and after reading your story, I came to this conclusion. For a better tone, she can stand somewhere and wait for you, you will surely find yourself. I wish.