How To Find A "balanced" Boyfriend

   I hate both sexes equally, he shouts, hahaha. Make me happy. You're a little crazy, but in the good sense of the word. I can understand you because I know a man like you, also a boy, but a few years older. Terrible cutie, but very complex nature. I kept joking with him that he was a special breed of free being. My relationship with him is one of the most meaningful in my life, because it allowed me to express aloud all the points of view I see and he could always add a few more that are obviously scandalous, but in fact very well argued. In a strange way, I feel close to you, because you look very much like a person who managed to touch my heart. You have asked increasingly complex questions to which you will never receive an adequate opinion, because they have countless answers. You run away from normal thinking and overall your morals are different from the conventional one. You can't directly ask a person for love or a whistle without it sounding extremely strange. If someone asks me that, I'll probably burst out laughing and it won't cross my mind that he's very serious. Many other women would choose slaps in return, so be careful. 1. You don't have to make every effort. We have long lived in a time when women tend to take what they want, not just wait for it to come. If someone is interested and you stop inviting her to meetings, she will go crazy, post a few topics here, comment with all her friends and finally invite you or at least spam you with messages and hints. If a person has an interest, he does not do nothing - a golden rule. 2. Did the relationship limit you? No, relationships are not particularly restrictive. What you can do as a single player, you can do as a team member, but it is already a team game. In relationships, it is important to communicate. As long as you find a person who understands you and has a similar vision, everything is more beautiful than a rainbow. I never stopped my friend from communicating with other people. He can talk to strangers, he can go out with friends, I have no problem with that. I would be jealous if I knew he was flirting, but I don't know about such a thing. I don't mind watching, because it's illegal to take someone else's eyes out and I'm powerless. I had a friend who flirted with others, annoyed me, but I knew him well and I was sure he did nothing more than that. He is so peculiar, you cannot tie him to a leash or change him, you can only love him and accept him with all his irritating features. They clung to him like flies, then he complained, and I explained to him that what he was doing were wrong signals. It is a problem to flirt, to touch, to kiss and to have sex with others ... these are for infidelity and lack of respect for the other half. If you meet a person who agrees with this, well done. And there are some somewhere in the world, if not, you talk, you talk and you hope to find a compromise. If you do it without permission, you bear the consequences and you will probably be left alone. The relationship does not limit you, but it makes you responsible for other people's feelings. If you hurt those feelings, it's your fault, and so are your guilt and consequences. 3. No one is obliged to choose you. You look at yourself relatively real in this case. In the same way, you do not have to choose exactly who you are. Here we are talking about feelings, about something invisible that attracts you. You find a person who has a kind of magic, magnetism, something special just for you. That is why love is so beautiful. The very thought that you see something special in someone and the same person sees something special in you. Where there is love, logic runs. Accept it. You just trust that you are special to someone, that he finds meaning in your existence and that you are interesting to him. Why? Because you look like all the other boys, but you're someone's boy and that makes you special. Have you read The Little Prince? You must have read it. Go back to the part with the fox and read it as many times as you need to understand the meaning of the text. There is a lot of truth there.

   Thanks for the comment, it seemed quite useful to me :) Yes, I read The Little Prince, but I forgot this part (probably somewhere in the bottom of my head it is gone). I'll look at her. Still, if of course you have an idea, can you tell me how to start a conversation with a boy about whistles? I go through a bit of shame to have fun: D

   I know people like you, some are bisexual, others are pansexual, others are heterosexual, but the general thing is that you do not want the so-called serious commitment, taking on responsibilities such as starting a family, and you only want sex, but with emotions. I have listened to the confused works, to these former acquaintances of mine, who talk about free love, pleasure, devotion, emotions, but notice - with whom they want, when they want, to be wanted, loved .... Everyone looking for love, even the biggest k *** i and e *** i, even those behind their sexual mish-mash, want love, to be loved. And you, like these former acquaintances of mine, at first reading are romantic, emotional and vulnerable people, intelligent, but at second reading it is clear that you have a lot of emotional problems, rejected, unwanted, with vague ideas about what love is, because you have not received it from anyone, incl.

   You think right. Women are not robots, even, in my opinion, they should take the first step, because I am ashamed and I do not know what is the first step I have to take. And as I say "I'll do it / I can do it, but you won't like it" And for these "downloads" it's my opinion that I don't know why the boys have to take the first step. The girls, in my opinion, have become very arrogant and proud and sit like princesses, and the boys have to bring everything to them with a tray. And now my idea is that in order to impress a girl, to arouse her interest, to draw your attention, you obviously have to act according to some already established schemes and tactics, and not to be yourself and introduce her to yourself. Apparently now the girls turn only to certain boys (to those who have found the guts to successfully remove a girl) Obviously someone needs to publish a book-manual for removing a girl ... But you can't be yourself ... you have to be familiar with things so that you can play your part. Do you understand? I think that's the way it is. Haho-Hihi