Hello, a 20-year-old boy writes to you. which is like most of you are easily attached, easily trusted and easily hurt. My story is as follows: 2-3 years ago I met a girl nice, kind, polite, polite, etc. while playing basketball outside. So every day we started gathering company (she was part of the company) and playing basketball, but while I was in contact with the girl I became more and more attached to her and I wanted things to work out, but then at the same time she caught friend, and I, as a good boy with a conscience, decided not to interfere between them and try to separate them, and then for a year and a half we did not write 1-2 times to write and that's it. But 7-8 months ago I saw that the girl in question broke up with her boyfriend and I decided to give it a try because we were both alone then. I was writing and one night we started writing to each other to tell each other things and so on ... so after 2 days she wanted to see me, and I excitedly immediately accepted the offer and in the evening we went out we didn't stop talking all night and saw that she hadn't changed . We started going out every day for almost a month - the two of us saw that we got used to each other and we started to feel feelings. I hurriedly kissed her after a month and a half and then I wanted to be together even more. For 4 months we went out, we behaved in one word like boyfriends (who we weren't), we kissed, we hugged and so on, until one night I couldn't stand it and I asked her if she would like to try to be together, she said she liked me too and I thought it would happen, but then she told me she would answer me the next day. So the next day in the evening there is an answer, I call and on the phone and I ask her decided if we will be together and then I heard what I didn't want the most ... She said: I'm sorry we can't be together, I'm going to the prom and so on. And from here to there we should see each other less often ... at the same moment I froze and I didn't know what to say she told me I'm sorry it happened. Me: are you sure of the words you say She: completely yes and from that day when she told me that we should see each other less often she stopped contacting me, stopped writing to me, etc. for 3 months or 4 somewhere we wrote to each other 3-4 times and we saw each other 2 times and that's the only way we passed each other. Please help me how to overcome what happened between us, I really need your advice to this day I think about her I have the feeling that then I even loved her in a word ... now I see that he is dealing with a boy and when I look from the side my tears are really flowing and I am suffering. please help me
1 sweetpants1982 answered
You were very late, dude, you should have taken her to you in the first month and passed her, she obviously likes such things and not the serious ones.