Hello, readers! I'm a woman of 20 years. I just finished my long relationship and I'm alone. I'm not ready for a new relationship, but I need sex. However, there is a problem if I meet a man and start to maintain contacts (chats, exits), I begin to get attached to this person. And if I let it come to my bed, then I will fall in love with this man, and I would like to avoid that. I've been thinking about the option of meeting a guy at a disco, for example, to suggest that we go to my place or them later. I live alone. So, my question is: how safe is it to have sex with someone you met at the disco and a total stranger? I'm thinking if it would really be a good idea for me to invite a stranger to my house or to go home. However, there are all kinds of psychopaths and I know what can happen and if I can defend myself. I know it sounds extreme, but I always have one mind and I think about it all. But there are certainly a lot of men looking for sex at the disco. And I wonder if I would be able to relax at a time like this if I think about my safety. I'm not ashamed to go to some guy and talk to him, especially if I drank a glass of alcohol (not drunk, of course). I'm just worried about myself at a time like this. There's no way I'm only having a boyfriend for sex because I'm just getting attached. If I don't have any coordinates with the person in question, it'il be perfect. I know a lot of people are doing this and they have no problems, but who knows. What do you think you're up to? Have you had any problems with sex with a stranger? Condoms are mandatory, of course, so I don't mention them. :) Thanks for your time! Be Healthy! :)