How Men Show Their Love

   I am a woman and at the age of 31 a man can win me over only with his humor, which is not too vulgar, with his mind - I want to have knowledge on many topics, to have a conversation, but not arguments, to be open to new ideas, to travel, to take me with him, to be able to apologize when he is wrong and realize this, to have friends who accept me, to imagine life with me confidently and to feel calm that I will be behind me when I succeed and accept failures.

   After a certain stage in my relationship with nothing, I do not show my love, but I have to. I'm not proud of that

   There was a thought somewhere that love makes a woman brave and a man shy ... and, yes, Victor Hugo. I can confirm that this is the case, at least in my case. I don't know why, but when a man truly falls in love, the woman becomes a higher creature in his imagination, and he is afraid to reveal himself. It may be out of fear of being rejected ... Many men, on the contrary, swear eternal love, but it is just a passion that, if satisfied, evaporates and his wife gets tired ... Other men become rude. . I don't know how to define this, but it's a fact.

   Well, it depends on what you take as a gesture of attention. The girls around me claim that what I consider to be gestures towards me is pure and simple habit and not subject to positive evaluation and that in fact he does nothing for me. But I value things as gestures. I'm glad he remembered the anniversary of our engagement and wedding. I was stressed that I would be one of those annoyances who would shudder that the man didn't remember these events at all. But every year he remembers his engagement and even if he doesn't have the opportunity to buy me something, because we spent such years, he reminds me and reminds us of our fears and our joy. I am told that this is normal and it should be so, but for me it is not - if he remembers, then there are really important dates in his life and he really insisted on it and at this stage he is still happy and does not regret the decision. you are. When he goes to a store recommended for something, he always buys something for me. He was recently recommended a new one in the neighborhood with quality alcohol at good prices. Besides taking my drink for him, he bought me chocolate. This is sweet. It has happened dozens of times over the years and I like it because he tries something new without me and tries to make me part of the experience by choosing something for me. That's how I accept things.

Compliments. He still hasn't stopped doing it to me, although in 4 years I gave birth to three children and believe me - I'm not the same at all! Compliments were more common in the beginning, but that was a decade ago. Now they are rarer, but they are online and are in moments when they really cheer me up. Not doing them every day is better because I don't know when it will happen, I really appreciate them and they sound very sincere, although sometimes I'm sure that he does them simply because he feels I don't feel well. During my pregnancies, he was very persistent in complimenting me. :) And for me, the biggest gesture that my girlfriends belittle the most is that it leaves me time for ME. I am a mother and I accept that it is my commitment to take care of the children and the household during this period - completely. But he bravely bends all three children with the dog and goes out so that I can feel human and relax. Or he stays with them and I go out somewhere. For me, the biggest gesture he makes is to thank me every day for something. Sometimes it's about the food, others that I've arranged the wardrobe, a third time - that I'm part of his life. I feel RESPECTED, LOVED and WANTED. These things are enough for me. During my pregnancies, he was very persistent in complimenting me. :) And for me, the biggest gesture that my girlfriends belittle the most is that it leaves me time for ME. I am a mother and I accept that it is my commitment to take care of the children and the household during this period - completely. But he bravely bends all three children with the dog and goes out so that I can feel human and relax.

Or he stays with them and I go out somewhere. For me, the biggest gesture he makes is to thank me every day for something. Sometimes it's about the food, others that I've arranged the wardrobe, a third time - that I'm part of his life. I feel RESPECTED, LOVED and WANTED. These things are enough for me. During my pregnancies, he was very persistent in complimenting me. :) And for me, the biggest gesture that my girlfriends belittle the most is that it leaves me time for ME. I am a mother and I accept that it is my commitment to take care of the children and the household during this period - completely. But he bravely bends all three children with the dog and goes out so that I can feel human and relax. Or he stays with them and I go out somewhere. For me, the biggest gesture he makes is to thank me every day for something. Sometimes it's about the food, others that I've arranged the wardrobe, a third time - that I'm part of his life. I feel RESPECTED, LOVED and WANTED. These things are enough for me. is that it leaves me time for ME. I am a mother and I accept that it is my commitment to take care of the children and the household during this period - completely. But he bravely bends all three children with the dog and goes out so that I can feel human and relax. Or he stays with them and I go out somewhere. For me, the biggest gesture he makes is to thank me every day for something. Sometimes it's about the food, others that I've arranged the wardrobe, a third time - that I'm part of his life. I feel RESPECTED, LOVED and WANTED. These things are enough for me. is that it leaves me time for ME. I am a mother and I accept that it is my commitment to take care of the children and the household during this period - completely. But he bravely bends all three children with the dog and goes out so that I can feel human and relax. Or he stays with them and I go out somewhere. For me, the biggest gesture he makes is to thank me every day for something. Sometimes it's about the food, others that I've arranged the wardrobe, a third time - that I'm part of his life. I feel RESPECTED, LOVED and WANTED. These things are enough for me. For me, the biggest gesture he makes is to thank me every day for something. Sometimes it's about the food, others that I've arranged the wardrobe, a third time - that I'm part of his life. I feel RESPECTED, LOVED and WANTED. These things are enough for me. For me, the biggest gesture he makes is to thank me every day for something. Sometimes it's about the food, others that I've arranged the wardrobe, a third time - that I'm part of his life. I feel RESPECTED, LOVED and WANTED. These things are enough for me.

   And what is required of you? Do you serenade him or are you the only one special?

   To 1: Aren't you some kind of reward that men should win you over? And how can you impress a man? Why do women think that you are some inaccessible fortress and only the most stubborn will succeed and reach? I have had several relationships, but I have never enslaved women. Impress you? Do you like me? It won't happen :)

   When my husband and I met, I was the first to make a gesture / surprise. I arranged a meeting for him in a garden between the blocks and told him to sit on a certain bench, to look under the bench, and there he saw a small blue box with a silver ribbon. I will not say what was inside, however :) After this incident we started going out every day and every night, I unfortunately had to leave for 3-4 months and things stayed that way ... To add that in good times I had not experienced until then. Taaa .. I left and not long after I was doing my job I looked up and saw the best gray eyes standing over the widest smile in the world .... Although there was not much time he always found for me to travel 4-5 hours just to see me, even for one night ... That's how this period went. I went home and my first thought was to get a nice bottle of wine. I left it in front of his door, took a picture of it and sent it to him ... I saw again that smile that warms my heart even in the darkest days. He waited for me with flowers after work, made me coffee in the morning, sometimes brought it to my bed with a flower.

We have been living like this for three years now, except for a period in which we both did some nonsense, but they are left behind. The most important thing that wins me every day is that with it I feel light as a feather, I am myself :))) I hope it will be the same for him. except for a period in which we both did some nonsense, but they stayed behind. The most important thing that wins me every day is that with it I feel light as a feather, I am myself :))) I hope it will be the same for him. except for a period in which we both did some nonsense, but they stayed behind. The most important thing that wins me every day is that with it I feel light as a feather, I am myself :))) I hope it will be the same for him.