This is the so-called Dunning-Krueger effect. It is expressed in the fact that the individual manifests a subjective and especially ILLUSOR feeling of superiority over others in the group. The study concerned the work environment, ie. a certain person thinks that he is smarter, more knowledgeable and more powerful, which is far from the truth and this is only in his head, but the effect is manifested in a number of other spheres of public life - including gender communication. You / you and your friends think that the fat one, however, can escape a number of other qualities that you do not have. When I was younger, I often heard remarks like: "look at her and what she's up to." And from such - ordinary boys, from ordinary families - I want to emphasize that they go to push in the hall, they give it to openers, uh, uh, but they don't think about it, that in relation to this person they may have no education, no money, no status, no intellect, no origin, no profession, etc. etc. It also depends on the woman - muffins are usually liked by such hunters and fitness enthusiasts, but if she is a valuable and serious woman, pushers in the gym with tattoos are their last chance. I don't know exactly what the case is, it may have been made up, but what I say is often in reality. It's usually important for women to create emotion for them, and I don't know if this man created it for her, but if a not-so-cool-looking man gets under her skin, creates emotion and sexual tension, it's no wonder she wins the valuable chick . Also, as I said, it depends on the woman - if she is just looking for sex, she will prefer one, but if she is looking for a more serious relationship, such neighborhood gyms have no chance. Of course I'm not saying that there are no men among them who deserve it. I train myself, and I trained as a young man. I explain in principle how things are. Bassi, probably the fat and cool babe is bursting with sex ......... just when you think about it and you want to kill him ;-) Advice from me - shake off such things, don't think about them, work more on yourself and as they say, move on. Male 46 years old
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Hahaha! Well, not writing or drinking makes him better than you! You may hate him, but he's with the chick, not you!