Hello, I am a student. In the first year I met a colleague, we became friends, we went out with our common company. At that time I had a friend for 2 years. After a while, things changed after we broke up with him one night ... Since then, of course, there has been no friendship. Sometimes he writes to me and we go out, we go for a walk, we even have sex, but he never wants to reveal himself to me, as when we were friends, as if he had put up a barrier since all this happened ... Our relationship is not going anywhere , at times he is very nice, we talk normally, sometimes he is cold with me, he doesn't say a word to me. I don't know what to do, I try to dig deep into him, but he won't let me, and I fell for him. I know that nothing will ever happen between us again and that bothers me, but I can't stop thinking about him ... What to do and why do all this? !!
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I didn't understand you got stuck with him while you had a boyfriend? Now, let me explain to you, in my opinion, how things stand from a bitter experience. I learned to judge the woman on the other side. So now, for example, when I start doing some first duty, I have to find out if there is a person next to me during the dump and bring things to an end to see if he will cheat. Why am I doing this? Well, for the simple reason that even if this person is with you the same way you won her, someone else will come and he will win her. This shows that the woman has no respect for the man next to her. In my opinion, it's usually good for him not to let you in, once in the past there was a girl who told him the game, and now it will take him a long time to trust to let someone near him.