I completely agree with 9, especially in the EASY part - it is not by chance that the people have said "beauty cannot be achieved by force". If you're going to push yourself, if you're going to pretend to be a clown, sooner or later you like it. But let's not forget that 9 is still at the beginning of a conscious euphoria, the passion has not yet passed, the curiosity is there, she has not yet found everything in her partner, but probably her partner is also good. Things, more or less, are a matter of personal choice, and the transition from personal to collective choice does not always happen or is not as easy as it seems from the side. I have been in a relationship for 9 years, the first 5 were wandering, adjusting and adapting - the environment in which we grew up is different, the value system is built differently, goals, aspirations, ideals are different. I'm a difficult character, she's a difficult character, Let's see who will prevail now - it is not a matter of overcoming, it is a matter of consensus, but it is also a matter of great patience and faith in the good inherent in each of us. Most bachelors and maidens do not believe that something good can happen to them, they are in eternal hesitation, eternal search, they never deepen, never seek - they think they deserve the full bucket, they just want to take - they have already given. Obviously your relationship is in crisis, but I do not advise you to rush with any capital conclusions, much less to try somewhere outside - believe me outside is no different, but you have the option to continue the search and after 2 years to release the same topic, after 2 more again. Now I'm contradicting myself, the connection should be EASY, but that doesn't mean without any effort, and number 9 (probably) already has this,
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Hello! My ex-girlfriend was the same, but she got cold much earlier. Her words were "Love exists for 2-3 years, from then on it is only respect" with which I do not agree - a gram. Love, in my opinion, exists as long as two people, sane, devoted people with a warm soul, want to keep the flame and neither of them relaxes, but works and thinks in this direction, to make gestures, to behave carefully, to enjoy his partner and everything else of this type. In short, as your man relaxes, it will get worse. I will neglect your attempts to light the flame, it will be the same until you finally pray for a little attention and hear "You still want a lot" :) This happened to me. This happens when you have a relationship with a cold person who does not know how to show his love or does not even try. Few people really want love to build something from there. This is about respect ... I have respect for my neighbor and my neighbor. Will I have a family or will we be roommates ??? I hope I was of help to you. 30 M Bs