I am your age and I have encountered a similar "problem". First of all, to say to №11 was it that men and women have sex at 40, no different from that at 25 or 30. Men do great at 40 and 50-55, for further no I know from experience. I want to tell you that many people of our generation, incl. and men are ashamed to admit that they masturbate, even more so in front of their partners. No man will admit to cheating while working abroad. There he can do it for money / not very expensive / with a prostitute, there are many opportunities for that. I don't know exactly what your husband does, but it is very possible that fatigue and responsibility, concentration at work and strong nostalgia for the homeland and family (the older you are, the stronger) are really reasons why he did nothing with another. It's not that amazing. He may have masturbated once or twice. Yes, it is physically possible. Men reduce masturbation with age, calm down. I just want to tell you not to worry, I know men, my friends, who have been "on vacation" from sex for 3-4 months and really have not cheated, even if they had the opportunity. Accept it, calm down and do not question him, enjoy your time together. It is very likely that this person is loyal to you, not even for you, but for yourself, as you want to understand it. Love him and trust him, do not torture yourself. Tell him that if there was anything, you will accept it, smile and forget the gloomy thoughts. In no case be deceived by the comments of 25-year-old inexperienced people in relationships for which everything is sex and sex again. Sometimes sex gives way, as incredible as it sounds. I'm trying to tell you to believe him, because what he told you is a very real situation in life, no matter how unbelieving you are. Just calm down :) g42g
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It depends on how old he is.