How Is It Possible Such Hypocrisy, Such Meanness? I Got Divorced ...

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Hello, Many topics have emerged about the relationship between bachelors and married women, so I will drive straight. My heart is burning with pain, my soul is drowning in sadness, I can neither explain such behavior at all, nor can I accept it as a normal male behavior. And if I have any guilt, it is that I fell in love, that I was honest and frank, and that I believed some blatantly outright lies. We fell in love with each other, we couldn't help it anymore. We complemented each other, we had common plans, interests. He knew I was married with two children. He accepted my situation and claimed that nothing bothered him, he would accept me with them and take care of us. Of course he wanted his own children, I had nothing against giving birth to him. We clarified and analyzed the situation and finally decided to divorce. You couldn't live with a lie anymore. It cost me a lot of pretending at home. As painful as it was, the divorce took place. I will not say a bad word about my husband. He acted fairly and calmly enough, although he took the situation very seriously. The apartment left me and the children (he didn't ask for a penny for his share) and took their monthly alimony from the court. I can't ask for a penny more from him. He doesn't owe me anything anymore. He also has the right to life and happiness. The problem came most unexpectedly after that. Instead of rejoicing in my divorce, my lover gradually began to cool down and give back. At first he seemed happy, but the change was obvious. I ask what's going on? After long twists and turns, he finally spat out the pebble. There was also parental and relative pressure. He could not take responsibility for other people's children (I have two girls aged 4 and 6) with a living father. If something happened he would answer, he even bore legal responsibility because they lived with him. I called him - you knew in advance that I had children and that was not a problem. He explains to me that he was in euphoria at the time and did not realize these things. He accepted me, he loved me, but I should have gone to him alone and left the children to my ex-husband. I couldn't believe it. I looked up and called out to him what kind of love you were talking about when you made me give up my own children. I left him and cried for three days without looking for him. I wasn't just on my own. Then he looked for me. He apologized and came up with a new offer.

He would accept the children as well, but since he lives in another city, I would have sold my apartment and helped each other with the money from the sale, because it would have been very difficult for us, especially if we had our children. I was amazed again. I call him what these deals are, thin bills. If I sell my only property, where do I go with these children? Everything happens to stay on the street. The whole saga lasted another month or so. I don't want to explain anymore, it was very painful, we finally broke up. There is no force that can make a normal woman sacrifice or leave her children for any man. But is such behavior of false promises and love masculine until the moment when responsibility must be taken? I am writing this story because the site is anonymous and everyone can learn from each other's mistakes. It's just that we women suffer the most because of our own naivety and gullibility. which would make a normal woman sacrifice or leave her children for any man. But is such behavior of false promises and love masculine until the moment when responsibility must be taken? I am writing this story because the site is anonymous and everyone can learn from each other's mistakes. It's just that we women suffer the most because of our own naivety and gullibility. which would make a normal woman sacrifice or leave her children for any man. But is such behavior of false promises and love masculine until the moment when responsibility must be taken? I am writing this story because the site is anonymous and everyone can learn from each other's mistakes. It's just that we women suffer the most because of our own naivety and gullibility.

Last Updated
August 01, 2020
Author:
you_cant_know

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