How Is A Boy Brought Up?

   I am not a mother, but I can express an opinion on what is not good to do in raising your son. It is very important for a boy to grow up aware that he is able to deal with problems on his own (which are less important as a child and become more complicated with age), although he can always count on the support and help of his parents. It is good for children in general to be encouraged to be independent and to overcome obstacles purposefully, and not to be taught that parents know, know and will be more successful because they are older. Starting from tying shoes in childhood and going through the choice of education to choosing a partner in life, one must feel that he is a leading figure in his own life. When a boy gets used to just wiping his snout when he gets dirty, only for mom to buy him underwear, only for her to manage his time, because she knows how to distribute it more sensibly, to remind him of his duties ... he remains dependent and unable to manage his life even when he grows up as a child. -yunush period. In a few words, educate him in initiative and independence, to express his feelings, opinions, preferences, to feel meaningful and individual. Give him tasks to complete on his own in order to realize his role in the family as a building block of a single whole. This does not mean that you will let him do things that would harm him (at least while he is a minor you have a legal right to guide him in his decisions). Just don't make him painfully addicted. to remind him of his duties ... he remains dependent and unable to manage his life even as he grows older. In a few words, educate him in initiative and independence, to express his feelings, opinions, preferences, to feel meaningful and individual. Give him tasks to complete on his own in order to realize his role in the family as a building block of a single whole. This does not mean that you will let him do things that would harm him (at least while he is a minor you have a legal right to guide him in his decisions). Just don't make him painfully addicted. to remind him of his duties ... he remains dependent and unable to manage his life even as he grows older. In a few words, educate him in initiative and independence, to express his feelings, opinions, preferences, to feel meaningful and individual. Give him tasks to complete on his own in order to realize his role in the family as a building block of a single whole. This does not mean that you will let him do things that would harm him (at least while he is a minor you have a legal right to guide him in his decisions). Just don't make him painfully addicted. to feel meaningful and individual. Give him tasks to complete on his own in order to realize his role in the family as a building block of a single whole. This does not mean that you will let him do things that would harm him (at least while he is a minor you have a legal right to guide him in his decisions). Just don't make him painfully addicted. to feel meaningful and individual. Give him tasks to complete on his own in order to realize his role in the family as a building block of a single whole. This does not mean that you will let him do things that would harm him (at least while he is a minor you have a legal right to guide him in his decisions). Just don't make him painfully addicted.

   As a young man, I don't know if I can give you exact advice, but as a child in the family - a boy, I can tell you how I was raised. Probably because of the nonsense I did as a kid I often ate slaps. Then of course I thought differently, but when I go back I now accept it, because it is very important to respect your parents at an early age and more precisely the father. and when my mother said something to me, and I did? I gritted my teeth, she just turned to my father and everything was fine :) I don't want you to understand me correctly. I am NOT for violence and beatings, but just to clarify the fact who the boss is in early childhood. They also often pleased me, but not in such a way as to spoil myself and get on their heads. In general, when I wanted something and we could afford it - sooner or later it happened, but when there was no way to fulfill my whim, they just told me that we didn't have a chance. I don't know if I explained it correctly, if this is the right way at all and if people will agree with me, but I share how I was brought up when I was a kid. Now I can say that I am 1 idea better as a purely human qualities over other people my age. * Syndrome

   I fully support the previous 2 comments! It is very important for the child to have responsibilities and to be encouraged to cope only in life. We, the parents, always want to protect the children and to please them out of love for them, but this is a wrong approach and only harms the child.

   Um, I can't speak from the position of a parent, but I can speak from the position of a child. As a child, our people didn't let me go anywhere or almost anywhere ... to a party - once a year. However, we had an agreement - did I turn 18 to go where I want but also to manage as best I can (well, with an additional cause - higher education ...). Well, when I turned 18 I won't tell what I was doing ... When I turned 18.2, however, I signed up to study and I had to start work because our people stopped supporting me. Anyway. I went through a lot of difficulties and lost many pleasures that my peers enjoyed ... I am now 23. I am an industrial engineer, but the fact that I have achieved something does not mean that I owe something to my family. Little by little we lost touch and to be honest I don't care much. Well, in the end, everything has a price,

   The most important thing is not to let it get on your head. I have a friend, he has no mother and his father at the time in his effort not to miss anything always satisfied him with everything and now the work is such that the man has no money to dress like people, and the boy always wants, wants, wants. So I think it's important to know your place. When you say NO, it means NO ..

   Teach him that apart from the above tips `` no free lunch`` teach him to achieve everything with hard work eee now not physically heavy but for example if he wants chocolate he must first put away his toys ..... teach him to write to read books gradually just made him a man and a good man

   Isn't it a little too laudable? use the word "good" in cases where he has done something useful, and not by the way. I don't know how old he is, but I guess he's a child or a baby. However, the previous comments are quite good in some respects. The modern upbringing of children must be without a fight and teach him that life is a struggle in which there are many battles to be won. For the books, I didn't understand whether you should read how to do it or educate yourself through them, but in principle, reading would open his worldview to everything and this would help his development, and would further enrich his vocabulary. However, you should watch its development and not fall "accidentally" into bad companies, for example, to "learn" it. on some bad things or to encourage him a little (but not always to get used to, and I do not know how much you can) with good results. A person learns while he is alive and just as you will learn how to raise your son, so he will help you in this endeavor.

   I have a 17-year-old son and I say responsibly that I raised him well but everything is due to one thing and the rest lies on him, never lies to him about anything. As a child he asks awkward questions, choose words to explain to him as an adult I have shared everything with him and I have always been friendly, he knows what income I have and what he can have. I do not confuse him with the girls, I have favorites among them but I do not tell him not to influence him in any way .Just don't lie to him and treat him as an equal, nothing that you can stand.