Hello! Last week I happened to see an acquaintance of my friend's (we've been together for 6 years) pressuring him - as soon as he entered he threw himself very fat, started kissing and hugging him. At first she didn't notice that I was there (we know each other, she knows who I am and that I go with the man in question), but then she saw me and she seemed quite uncomfortable. He tried to blur the situation in a very stupid way, leaving to make me happy, I tried to turn it into a joke, but in the end it became extremely awkward. My friend pushed her away, of course, but I didn't find it insistent and clear enough. Later I pulled him aside and asked him what these things were, had it happened before? It turned out that 2-3 times in the company of other people, she was quite persistent, "revolved" around him, hugged him, etc. He explicitly told her that he doesn't like her and doesn't want them to have anything to do intimately. He has been in front of many people and if I want, I can ask them, but I have full confidence in him on this issue. I was a little angry that he didn't tell me, but he doesn't pay any attention to such things and immediately forgets, which is where my first problem comes from: It's not sharp enough. Obviously, some people are too primal and do not understand a normal refusal. There was a case before this - 100 times it was explained to the girl not to touch him, but she knew her own and continued to persist. However, he maintains friendly relations with them - they talk to each other, see each other in company, walk together if they are in the same direction, etc. This is extremely incomprehensible to me. How do you want to cut off someone's aspirations by being so friendly? The truth is that my friend is very non-confrontational and kind. She's very worried about offending someone and not looking like an asshole.
He allows everyone to get on his head - family, colleagues, friends too. I suspect that this motivates the suitors not to give up. In his place, I would humiliate and verbally crush them in front of as many people as possible and end all contacts so that whatever happens. When someone is insolent to me, I react this way because I think it's right. That if you're so embarrassed to be teased ... what if he likes it? I have to admit that the women in question are quite nice, which totally confuses me - why would a nice and intelligent girl be offered such a mess when she has already been denied? Isn't it terribly humiliating? My second problem: it hits me with confidence. I know I can't expect others to protect me, and that's my job, but I feel as if they don't see me as an obstacle, as if they are more than me and I shouldn't go into the accounts at all. I don't know if that's the case or they would have behaved the same way even if I were an unearthly beauty and an exceptional person. I feel humiliated, and I know I shouldn't. I explained to him how I felt and how I thought he should play these situations. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings! I don't know if that's the case or they would have behaved the same way even if I were an unearthly beauty and an exceptional person. I feel humiliated, and I know I shouldn't. I explained to him how I felt and how I thought he should play these situations. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings! I don't know if that's the case or they would have behaved the same way even if I were an unearthly beauty and an exceptional person. I feel humiliated, and I know I shouldn't. I explained to him how I felt and how I thought he should play these situations. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings! that I consider them good enough to annoy me. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings! that I consider them good enough to annoy me. He said he understood my position, but it was very difficult for him to be "so rude" to people. He would try. I would be interested to share stories and how you and your spouses have coped with such phenomena. Greetings!
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Glad he pushed her away, or he could have left her greasy. And I don't like it if someone puts it like that, a friend or an acquaintance, or whatever. Good friend, alas. Well, we weren't going to fight or anything, but my gaze was indicative enough. He stopped. Your man must learn not to allow such liberties, to say I have a girlfriend and that's it. A smart woman will realize that there is no place there, and will turn to free men. The cheeky, simple women will keep going until things get rough. I will also be interested in reading stories.